Adult Gifts with a Difference

Adult Gifts with a Difference

When you love someone, and you’ve been with them for a long time, you come to know every inch of their body – every curve, every plane, every sensitive spot, erogenous zone, and all those secret ticklish places in-between. For a time, maybe you’ll adore that familiarity, that complete knowledge. When you know someone so entirely, you know exactly how to pleasure them; you know exactly where to go, how much to tease, how hard to push, how long to hold…

But sometimes, knowing every trick can make you lazy. Sometimes it means you don’t enjoy the ride and you just go straight to the finish because you know exactly which buttons to push. Sure, it results in pleasure for all, but it can take the excitement out of love-making, it can kill the passion and the romance. If you want a long term relationship to be successful, and passionate, with a healthy sex life the one thing you absolutely must not to do is let your sex-life become mechanical.

Sure, the couples’ quest to spice up their sex life is nothing new. However, don’t make the mistake of going too far too quickly. So maybe, in comparison to some, your sex life is a little vanilla (not that that’s a bad thing!) but that doesn’t mean you should go from vanilla to hard-core fetishism in one giant leap. If you are in a relationship with someone you love, take the time to investigate the mysterious underworld of sex-play together. Sexy costumes, body chocolate, or maybe even handcuffs, are a great starting point.

If you’re shy though, and you don’t know how exactly to bring up your desire to expand your sexual horizons with your partner, consider giving your partner an adult gift such as a sex toy or adult costume as a birthday or anniversary present. It’s something playful and fun and although it might be a joke at first, it may just open up the doorway to a whole new world of sex-play for you and your partner to explore together.