When we mention the word strap-on most people automatically go to girl/girl. However, strap-on play can be quite fun for everyone. Why make the fuss of using a strap-on when you can just use a regular dildo and guide to wherever you want to use it? Well what most of you don’t realise is that by using a strap-on during sex you are offering a different more unique erotic connection with your bedroom partner – even a deeper sense of intimacy.
What is a strap-on?
Basically a strap-on is an artificial phallic appendage (or dildo), that can be worn to replicate the male penis typically during sex play. It is normally attached to a harness (however there are many different styles which we will delve into shortly) and is designed to sit in a similar position to the male penis. Or it can give a guy an extra penis, one that may be firmer and a little more cooperative then their real one. Most strap-on harness allow the wearer more comfort and control therefore ensuring that they can provide the most pleasure to their partner. Most styles today also offer the flexibility of being able to switch around the dildos so the possibilities and varieties are endless.
Who uses a strap-on?
Strap-ons are typically seen to be worn mostly by women, however they can also be used by men who may be experiencing some erectile dysfunction as it can be used in the same manner as their penis in sexual activity – still providing that level of intimacy that might be a little lost for couples that may be going through some difficult times. Strap-ons are also perfect to be used during role plays, and for those women who love the sensation of being able to penetrate their partner. They provide a novelty aspect to any adventurous couple who is after a little more excitement, a little more playfulness and a much deeper intimacy to any interested couple – not to mention leaves your hands free for other fun!.
What styles are there?
The options in strap-ons right now is amazing. There are so many different styles, materials, shapes and sizes that there is bound to suit each and every need out there. You will have an idea of the size of dildo you will be wanting to use. Also take note if changing the dildo over to other sizes and shapes might be wanted also, if this is the case you may want to look at a harness that had interchangeable o-rings. This allows you to change the dildo easily. (you may need to invest in a set of o-rings when you purchase your new harness. Most harnesses will be padded for extra comfort for the wearer and you can also get some that have an added “pocket” so you can add a clitoral stimulator that makes it even more fun for the female wearer. But we might add that if you get a good quality wireless bullet the vibrations will also reverberate through to the dong in the harness as well. Fun for all!!
If you are more experienced in harness use, you may want to keep the strapless strap-on in mind. With this style there are no straps that wrap around your waist. There is a larger bulbous end that is worn in the vagina and the longer “shaft” end that is used to penetrate your partner either vaginally or anally. But please bear in mind that if used anally it is more for those more experienced in anal play, as the shaft can be quite lengthy and circumference.
Enjoy the pleasures!
Regardless of whether you are male or female, anyone can enjoy the power and pleasures of a strap-on. All sexes and orientations can enjoy the adventures (& even the misadventures) of strap-on sex! They are perfect for any men that are concerned with ED issues or for that woman who enjoys the sensation of being able to penetrate her partner. No matter what style, colour, material or functionality Naughty but Nice online will have whatever strap-on harness (or even strapless strap-on) to satisfy any couples sexual needs. Now all you have to do is decide where to start!!
