Introducing Bondage into Your Relationship
Bondage can be the ultimate sexual rush for consenting adults who want to play a little harder in the bedroom. For the novice it can be an overwhelming choice or sensation, so always follow the important safety rules, as well as any instruction on the adult toy box. Health and safety demands that you set boundaries before playing with any bondage gear during sex.
But don’t worry, this part of bondage can be as much fun as the kinky games themselves! Sit down and outline your plans in arousing detail. This is best done during foreplay to create atmosphere. Always use a “safe word”. This is a word that is pre chosen by the participants and once said by the submissive person, means the game is over.
The tied up person needs to be released immediately if this word is said. This is an important factor, as it can be overwhelming to be restrained or dominated. Health concerns can play a factor on safe words, such as muscle cramps or circulation being cut off. A hand gesture may be used if the submissive is going to be gagged as well.
Overview
• Bondage should only be between consenting adults
• Bondage creates powerful trust between partners
• Use a safe word
• Always communicate with your partner
• Start with simple bondage gear
• Move on to more advance adult toys when ready
Yielding control over to someone you trust can be the ultimate way to express how much you trust them. It’s an opportunity to just let go, after all, you can’t worry about performance when you’re all tied up! Bondage is all about sensation such as the caress of a hand or a feather, the sharp sting of a crop or the hefty thump of a paddle. For the person in charge, known as the dominant person or “Dom” it can feel marvellous to know that your partner trusts you.
Dom’s feel powerful, loved and trusted. They can tease, taste and touch to their heart’s desire, as well as learning how to make their partner’s body sing with sexual joy. Good communication is utterly essential. Play around with your adult toys and restraints well ahead of the game. This is so you both know how to get out of the bondage gear in a hurry. A good place to start is a simple bondage gear kit. These couples kits have all the basic adult toys you need to start your fetish fun. Rope is versatile and cheap.
With a bit of practice bondage rope can be used in an infinite variety of ways. Blindfolds heighten sensation, and feather ticklers can be used to tease. Wicked Desires suggests starting with beginners cuffs, which have safety catches installed for easy removal. Once you’ve mastered the basics of fetish play, you can move on to wilder devices such as body harnesses, bed restraint systems, paddles and many other adult toy available on the market.
Remember to communicate with your partner about which types of sex toys and bondage gear you would like to try, and the reasons why. Open communication, both before and during fetish play will always yield the most satisfaction results. Play safe and use safe words, and above all, have fun!
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