Mastering Masturbation A Womans Guide To Self Pleasure

26 Sep

0 2122 Post by Trish

Mastering Masturbation - A Woman's Guide To Self Pleasure

Mastering Masturbation A Womans Guide To Self Pleasure – It seems to be the dirty word of the sexual world. For many, it conjures up images of old men, scolding nuns and the American Pie movie. Just like reality TV, we all indulge in it from time to time, but very few are willing to admit how much they enjoy it.

Masturbation is a normal, healthy part of life and there is no need to be ashamed of it. In fact, experts claim that masturbation is the best way to increase your sexual desire, discover what turns you on and alleviate stress. By harnessing the power of self-pleasure, you become more in tune with your body and are able to reach orgasm more easily during intercourse.

So, if you’re hoping to master the art of masturbation, here are a few tips to get you started., here are a few tips to get you started.

Set the scene

When you masturbate, you are honouring yourself, so take the time to create a sensual and relaxing space. Don’t hold back on preparation. Put on some comfortable yet inviting clothing, breathe deeply and slowly to relax your body and mind. Dim the lights, put on the music, get the oils out and get ready to enjoy a bit of quality ME time.

Warm up

Much like a workout, you require a warm up to get the most out of masturbation. Tease, explore and gently awaken your inner sexuality by touching and stroking your body. Touch your legs, inner thighs, hands and feet, lightly brushing over your breasts. Feel the sexual energy pulsating throughout your body.

Get started

When you feel your whole body tingling, gently insert one finger into your vagina, about 2 inches deep, and move in and out. Repeat this motion, gently rubbing in circular motions around the labium. Your vagina’s natural fluids will act as lubrication and will enhance the sensation.

Try a few different techniques

We’re not saying there’s anything wrong with the good old fashioned finger but for many woman, digital stimulation alone is not enough to achieve orgasm. There are a number of different techniques you can try that may work for you. Try using your detachable shower head to stimulate the clitoris.

You may wish to start on a lower water pressure and work your way up to avoid excessive stimulation. If you own a pool or hot tub you might want to try positioning yourself in front of one of the jets. Stand far enough away so it is not uncomfortable for you, then move closer and closer until the stimulation is enough to make you orgasm.

Invest in a vibrator

When you run out of household appliances you might want to try sex toys or a vibrator. Vibrators are specifically built for solo sessions and their design features are ideally suited to clitoral stimulation. Naughty but Nice stock a wide range of vibrators for your personal enjoyment. Their staff are well informed and more than happy to recommend a product to suit your individual needs.

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5 Things You Didn’t Know About Your Vagina

26 Sep

0 2238 Post by Trish

Vaginas come in all shapes and sizes and no matter what yours looks like, the chances are you’re stuck with it for life. It’s important you become familiar with this intimate area of your body. Below are five things you may not have known about your vagina.

1. Orgasms are good for pain relief

Studies have proven that orgasms are an effective treatment for pain relief. In fact, a good orgasm is better than most over the counter medications. This is because endorphins released during sex can increase pain tolerance by almost 70 per cent. I guess that means the ‘headache’ excuse is no longer valid!

2. Vaginas are self-cleaning

Like a cat, vaginas are designed to clean themselves regularly. This is a process by which your vagina produces discharge which expels old cells that have lined the vagina. The colour and thickness of your discharge will change depending on your monthly cycle and health.

To maintain a clean and healthy vagina, avoid harsh chemicals or invasive douches. Instead, drink lots of water to get your natural juices flowing.

Personal lubricants can keep your intimate area healthy and happy.

3. There’s more than one “G” Spot

As if finding the G spot wasn’t hard enough, there’s now more than one. The A-Spot is located deeper within the canal than the G-spot. Correctly stimulated, the A-spot can give a woman incredible orgasms. Just remember to use plenty of personal lubricant so it’s not uncomfortable.

4. You are what you eat

Health experts have been preaching the merits of a healthy diet for centuries but now sex therapists agree. Studies have shown that the smell and taste of a woman’s vagina is largely determined by what she eats. The hot tip for a fresh smelling undercarriage? Avoid foods like onion and cabbage and instead go for fresh fruits such as pineapple and oranges. You never know, it might give your man an excuse to head south more often.

5. Having sex can keep your vagina young and healthy

Like all muscles, your vagina needs to be exercised regularly in order to stay in shape. During prolonged periods of abstinence the delicate tissues inside the vagina wall will thin and begin to weaken. Regular sex, however, can tone and strengthen your pelvic muscles, which can lead to greater bladder control and longer, stronger orgasms.

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How To Have Better Orgasms

09 Sep

0 2013 Post by Trish

The Art Of Orgasm - How To Have Better Orgasms

For some of us, orgasms are like those sneaky, elusive unicorns. A mystical fantasy. So in saying that what exactly is it that influences our capacity to orgasm? And how can we change and better our surroundings to increase our chances to achieve that ultimate state of ecstasy? Achieving an orgasm during sex is complicated. Men need to understand a woman’s body in order to help her achieve an orgasm. But this is an art that we can all learn whether it be male or female. If men go into sex with an egotistic mindset and just want to “blow” then the likely outcome is the female will most definitely fake her orgasm. Sorry guys, if you’re sexually active then I can confidently say you have experienced a fake orgasm – at least once in your life. And if you’re really unlucky, maybe even multiple times.... and if your female sex partner is saying she has never faked an orgasm, chances are she’s lying. So why is it exactly that make a woman fake an orgasm? Well basically its simple - because some men don’t understand the complexity of the female body and fail to see the signs that can be put right there in front of him. Feminine sexuality is represented by water and masculinity is by fire. Fire is forceful, intense, quick to start and to finish much like the male orgasm in a way. Whereas water takes time to heat up much like a woman. Guys please never just stick the penis in and expect good results. A female needs to be aroused. This is where foreplay plays a very important step – NEVER EVER SKIP THIS STEP (subtle enough hint there?). From little things like kissing the neck or breasts, maybe a sensual body massage to a more complex thing like touching the clitoris (remember guys it’s not like it’s your last meal – go gentle!) to oral sex. The possibilities in foreplay are endless and in the end you are in control of how far the boundaries may go – maybe just maybe she likes to be man handled and sexually choked? When it comes to the female orgasm these can be put into 2 categories: clitoral orgasms and vaginal orgasms. The most common way to achieve orgasm is by sexual stimulation of the clitoris. And statistics show that up to 80% of the female population require direct clitoral stimulation to achieve orgasm. This includes consistent manual, oral or other concentrated friction against the external parts of the clitoris. What if the mind starts rambling away during sex? We get it. Life is stressful: your job, social interactions, the kids even that traffic jam you got stuck in this morning. The mind is a complicated thing that tends to reflect endlessly, even before and during sex. But never fear! There are ways to help trick the mind in order to help you let go and enjoy the moment.

Set up the right environment – our mood, thoughts and energy are heavily influenced by our environment. Our sensorial stimuli. You can help control this. Dim those lights, play that sexy music, wear that sensual perfume. You will find you will instantly relax.
Talk smooth – asking them if the bins been emptied in your huskiest, sexiest voice is not what we mean either. The power of words is very real. Talk sweet, talk sexy!
Change your environment occasionally – sex needs to be fun and interesting. Take it out of the bed sometimes. Sex is fun in other places (that suit you of course) even in other positions. Maybe a fancy hotel room? Explore!!
Train your brain to let it go! Easier said than done, yes I know... But even when you aren’t preparing yourself for sex, you actually really are! This takes time and discipline to be able to teach your brain to stop that rambling. Maybe try to meditate, listen to music, even exercise!
Bonus bizarre tip – shower before sex... you’re probably thinking what? surely not? But it works. When you shower it can help send a signal to the brain that you are essentially washing away everything that happened throughout the day, all that fatigue, all those emotions from the day. You are also literally washing the crap away, the dust, that handshake, the smells..... ready for a fresh start for another (more sexy) part of the day!

We all have so many things to learn when it comes to sex, our bodies and orgasms but that in itself is all part of the fun. The pleasure in sex is really only as good as you make it. Now is the moment!

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Understanding Aussie Men

09 Sep

0 2147 Post by Trish

Understanding Aussie Men

When it comes to hotness, Aussie men have this in spades. Have you ever stopped and asked yourself what it is that makes Aussie men so goddamn hot? Yeah, us too. From so many diverse looks - your surfer to the boy next door to that country cowboy. There’s an Aussie guy to suit anyone. Really what’s not to love when they have so much to offer. Like how they love a crazy ass adventure and are always up for a good time. Or how they can kill spiders for us.... on demand. (well most badass Aussie guys anyway) Aussie men are closet romantics (don’t deny it guys, you know we are right). According to research it showed Aussie men secretly believe in soul mates, love at first sight and rate romance as more important than sex! Oh and on that note they don’t actually know why they leave their hands down their pants. They just do. It actually has nothing to do with self pleasure. They do like to be told they are handsome, they want to feel desired and sexually wanted and ladies sometimes they would like us to make the first move.... And sometimes boners really are just random. The Stereotypical Aussie Bloke Aussie guys are basic... and they get away with it. The stereotypical Aussie bloke loves a good beer with almost anything and drink well mostly because they enjoy the taste (getting hammered in the process is really just the added bonus), they are rowdy and willing to give anything a go especially if the words before it contain “I bet you can’t”.... (This may or may not always end well). Aussie men keep it real! He will keep it 100% real with direct conversation and he has no interest in any drama. You will never need to mince your words with an Aussie guy and he certainly won’t either. Because of this you will always know what you’re getting. This also stands with their sports. Aussie men are obsessive about their teams and will not stray. Rugby in particular. Foreign styles aka gridiron pretty much in the eyes of the Aussie bloke is on a fundamental level, a pussy sport – (like who even wears padding’s or coverings) and you are unlikely to convince them otherwise without a significant amount of brainwashing. Hard-working With a Love For Adventure Aussie men work hard and they don’t mind rolling up their sleeves if and when the time ever calls for it. Most woman will agree that there really is nothing more unattractive then a guy who has no incentive or motivation, but with most Aussie men if there’s work to be done they’ll get stuck into it. In general Aussies are generally well known for their sense of adventure. And a big part of this is international travel. We can guarantee that it is highly likely you would come across an Aussie bloke on any international adventure you may be in the midst of. You will find them tucked away in all corners of the world (almost always with a beer, or 2) always ready for a chat. Faithful To The Core But the main thing you may find surprising about Aussie men that on a whole they are faithful. Yes we can’t deny they love a good party and they always have a few questionable rowdy mates but on a whole they do tend to stay out of trouble. An international study of over 40000 men revealed that Aussie men are in fact among the most faithful partners in the world. Of course no one is ever going to fit that “perfect” mould as many woman would like to believe actually exist. But Aussie men on a whole have some really great attributes, so next time you get chatting to an Aussie guy we suggest you don’t be so quick to throw him in the “no” pile. Chat to him a little longer, he may just surprise you!

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When 3 Can Be A Crowd

09 Sep

0 2126 Post by Trish

Threesome Tips - The Ultimate Guide To Better Sex

Threesomes (yeah, we are going there) – one of those intriguing things that really is on the forefront of sexual bucket lists for most people. I’m sure if you asked any guy what was on his bucket list I’m pretty certain that a threesome is likely to be the first thing he says (don’t deny it guys..). Why? Well what is there not to love about having not just one but two people in bed to play with you? There’s definitely some practicalities involved to having a successful threesome and lets be brutally honest its fairly easy to fuck things up when it comes to adding a third person into the mix. Threesomes have been known to tear apart even the serious, long-term couples – sometimes it’s something you won’t see coming until well after the event itself. You need to be confident that both you and your partner are both on the same page and realise that even if you are secure in your relationship still know that you are still risking a valuable relationship by doing so. Communication is the big key here. If at any point during the process either one of you start to feel uncomfortable don’t be afraid to speak up. First things first you need to find a willing third partner and one that your partner is ok with. Honestly, it’s hard enough getting one person into bed figuring out what turns them on and off, adding a second person can seem like insanity to some. The key to helping with this is if you are really in touch with yourself and what you hope to gain from the experience as well as what all parties involved also hope to get out of the experience. Again this is where communication is crucial. Thanks to dating sites and apps that are available, finding a third has given couples an endless pool to find their elusive “unicorn” . Another option to keeping it safer both physically and emotionally is to consider a “professional” (yes we mean a sex worker). Not only will they be up to date with all their sexual health and safety they will also have some experience in being able to make it fun for everyone involved. Added bonus that you don’t have the real threat of anyone getting jealous (and you may even pick up a couple of new techniques in the process!) So how do you decide who chooses? We suggest that you both be actively involved in finding that third party. Guys heres a handy tip - if you are wanting to bring in a second girl we can tell you now, you can offer your input on the girl but in the end its probably safer for all involved if you let your partner have the final decision. This can really help with cutting down jealousy. Plus it can make browsing for potentials more fun, and reassures the person being picked up that yes, you're all in for it and interested in having a good time. Added bonus tip: if you are a male, and you want your girlfriend to consider the idea of a threesome with another girl, it's only fair if you offer her the chance to be the meat in a boy sandwich. Just saying. As a couple it is also extremely important if you spend some time together afterwards – just you two! Do something romantic, reconnect. You have just experienced something together that can be a great rush but can also be followed by an intense fall, emotionally, so take time out for yourselves. And of course, there's the art of making sure that no one feels too left out during the act. But when it's done correctly, there's pretty much nothing that tops a steamy, successful ménage à trois.

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How to Improve Your Sex Life

09 Sep

0 2357 Post by Trish

How to Improve Your Sex Life

Sex! Yeah I went there. Sex – that one word that can stir up a kaleidoscope of emotions. From love, excitement, affection to longing, and even apprehension and disappointment. The reactions that one word can bring are as varied as the sexual experiences themselves. And whether you choose to see it, many of us... well really pretty much all of us will encounter all of these emotions of the course of our sex lives which could span over several decades. Let’s face it – every now and then our sex lives could use a little boost. Maybe you’d like to rediscover a stronger connection with your partner, deepen your own sexual self awareness, or... well just have more fun in bed! You can assume that romance will always take of itself or last forever, the truth is – you have to constantly work on it. Our sexual well-being goes hand in hand with our overall mental, physical, and emotional health – who would’ve thought? Communicating with your partner, maintaining a healthy lifestyle, being willing to have an open mind and just having fun can help you weather tough times. But what is sex, really? On one level, sex is just another hormone-driven bodily function designed to propagate the species. Of course, that narrow view underestimates the intricacy of the human sexual response. In addition to the biochemical forces at work, your personal experiences and expectations play an important role that help shape your sexuality. Your understanding of yourself as a sexual being, your thoughts about what represent a fulfilling sexual relationship, and your connection with your partner are key factors in your capacity to develop and continue a fulfilling, happy sex life. Communication, communication, communication!! Am I being subtle enough here? We are complex creatures and because of this many couples find it hard to talk about sex even under the best of circumstances. Society and its stigma with sex and sexual acts certainly doesn’t help the situation. Thankfully, over time this has eased a little. But talking openly when sexual problems occur, feelings of hurt, pride, guilt, and resentment can stop the conversation altogether. Because good communication is the foundation of a having a healthy relationship, communicating and being able to talk about any issues (no matter how great or small) is truly the first step not only to a better sex life, but also to a closer emotional bond with your partner. In saying this it is important to acknowledge that there are two types of sexual conversations: the ones you openly have in the bedroom and the ones you have elsewhere (probably best away from the midst of lovemaking). It's perfectly appropriate to tell your partner what feels good in the middle of lovemaking, they need to know what they are doing is feeling good – or what you would like them to be doing, but it's probably best to wait until you're in a more neutral setting to discuss those larger issues, such as mismatched sexual desire or orgasm troubles... You may think you're protecting your partner's feelings by faking an orgasm, but in reality you're starting down a slippery slope. As challenging as it is to talk about any sexual problem, the difficulty level skyrockets once the issue is buried under years of lies, hurt, and resentment. Be honest. Most importantly - Have fun! Use your sexual senses, get that stimulating massage oil, try that flavoured lubricant, buy yourself some sexy lingerie (dress for sex-cess!!), maybe even test out that toy that caught your eye (who knew rabbits could be so much fun!).

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Mastering Masturbation A Womans Guide To Self Pleasure