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Top Sex Tips for Men

20 Jun
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Top Sex Tips for Men

Believe it or not great lovers are made, not born. It takes effort, time and patience. Woman aren’t the easiest creatures to understand on the planet, believe me I know. I am one, and sometimes I don’t even understand myself. So it can be tricky to get an understanding of what works best for us in the bedroom. And regardless of how expert you believe you may be – I’m telling you now, it can be improved. But don’t stress, we will share a few great tips with you here.

1) The power of kisses

children kissing Now I’m not meaning go in mouth wide open and eat her face off. Stop it. No one enjoys that. No I mean, remember the good ole days back in high school where you would make out for hours and hours – and that would be the whole point of it. I mean that. Do that. Believe it or not the way you and your partner kiss can say a lot about the connectedness you guys have. My advice – take it slow, taste her. Take the time to really enjoy each other in the most simple non complex but beautiful way. Feel her lips, press your body into hers, hold her, smell her hair. Just take your time. That is what I mean.

2) Extend Foreplay – by A LOT

sensual sexual massage Foreplay is not a quick rub down there and she’s good to go. Nope just nope. Male and females are very different when it comes to foreplay. For one a females sexual energy begins in the extremities and works its way towards the genitals. Basically I’m just saying in a bit of a fancier way that females take longer to warm up. Guys if you do take the time to “warm” her up the rewards will be amazing. And honestly it doesn’t take a lot. Massage oils, give her a sensual body massage. Work your hands all over her body but as you get closer to her genital area slowly move away, believe me the anticipation will definitely build up. Maybe try light kisses up her body, gently around her neck and ears – all erogenous zones of the female body. By extending the time on foreplay, you will both have more time to build up into the moment therefore giving a higher possibility to achieve more powerful orgasms and maybe even multiple orgasms. Now really what’s not to love about that?

3) The “other” form of foreplay

chores wife husband couple You’re probably asking – “what there’s another form of foreplay?” - why yes there is. I’m talking about those common household chores that can sometimes build up. You know, those ones that you hear her get a little annoyed with. The laundry, the dishes, vac the floor, hell even make the bed. It’s really hard for women to focus and turn off their minds if they are surrounded by those pesky household chores. So fellas – honor yourself, and honor your relationship and help remove those mental road blocks from her mind as much as you can. Pick up/fold the laundry, vacuum, wash those dishes, take out the rubbish! She’ll be very appreciative. Very……

4) The power of words

dirty talking sex talk Dirty talk. It’s not just hot for you guys but us women don’t mind it too. But please don’t be corny with it. Dirty talk can be hot, real hot – but do it right. Before sex – tell her what you want to do to her. What you want them to do to you. During sex – tell her what feels so good to you in that moment. After sex – tell her what you loved about the experience you guys just shared. We all like a little praise, especially with something as personal as that.

5) Chill down on the porn!

watch less porno no pornography Now don’t freak at this. I don’t mean completely stop. Some ladies actually do like to watch it along with you. I just mean stop watching so…much….of…..it. Studies have actually proven that watching even a moderate amount can mess with one’s mind (and your ability to perform sexually, cough, cough…) You know when your browsing through a porn, you will actually scroll on through the different scenes in one single viewing session – well guys this causes your mind to create a habit of wanting arousal addiction which means your mind wants constant variety. Not real great when you’re in the midst of a session with your one partner (and you can’t actually click her through to another person). You will actually find your mind under stimulated and it can be a common cause for men (of ALL ages) to suffer a little erectile dysfunction because of it. Basically, Shorten those porn sessions guys. You’ll enjoy much stronger erections because of it.

6) Make some noise

loud sex You guys enjoy it when you can hear her having a great time during those hot and steamy sessions. Well us ladies also like to hear that you to are also enjoying yourself. I think the biggest complaint of had from females is that they find their partner to quiet in the sack. This is not the time to be quiet. Your partner will appreciate it if you moan, grunt, growl (in a non creepy way) or dirty talk more in bed. We like to know your enjoying yourself. It’s a big turn on for us.

7) Try sex in different locations

car sex different locations Sex doesn’t have to be reserved only for just the bedroom. Use your imagination. Sex in the shower (Naughty but Nice online also has show sex toys specifically available to help make this easier), how about in the bathroom whilst your both getting ready in the morning, in the car (and yes the car can even just be parked in your garage still) Really the options are endless. Use your imagination. But also stay a little cautious. No one wants to find themselves on the wrong side of the law for public nudity…. Although would make a great story. Have a date night – maybe even book a night away in a hotel (especially good if you have children at home) what’s not to love about a night out, a night of uninterrupted passion where you can just wake up, and leave. And for those friskier ideas, how about pulling your partners pants down whilst she’s doing the dishes or prepping food and go down on her right there at the kitchen bench. Do with that bit inspiration what you wish….

8) Go down, down

oral sex Oral sex isn’t  just for the boys. I think a lot of males see oral sex as a brief pit stop instead of a major destination in itself. So let’s face it. A lot of you haven’t really taken the time to master your skills and work on your energy in perfecting that tongue disco. In a way this is not all bad news for you. Because now if you actually put in a little effort into your approach and technique, then I have no doubt you’ll set yourself way ahead of the rest of the pack. Not all women are the same (not really a shock though) so yes what made one lady clawing the back of your head at might not really do the same to another. The trick here is to settle in, get comfortable, take your time and listen out for those tell tale signs of what she likes when her body responds in the moment. Don’t rush it. Trust me when I say by the time you are through, she'll be all kinds of blissed out, doe-eyed, looking at you like you’re an absolute rock star.

9) Touch and Play

couples touch rear bottom ass Touch your partner throughout the day. You know, grab their butt, when she walks by – give it a fun tap here and there. When your laying on the couch watching a movie – stroke your fingers gently through her hair. Nibble gently on her neck, or when you kiss her, kiss her like you mean it. Touch is such a strong sense. And relationships that have a high touch count are relationships that truly go the distance. That physical contact keeps that sexual simmer going throughout the whole entire day. It really makes your entire relationship an act of foreplay.

10) Share your Fantasies and Kinks!

couples kinky fetish dominatrix Guys are always asking us ladies what our fantasies are so the same goes with you. Do you know what your ultimate sexual life would be? If so, share it with your other half. Be open and honest. Open communication in any relationship is extremely important for it to be successful. Regardless of how connected you feel you are, they aren’t mind readers. So the only way they’ll know is if you tell them. This means having an open and honest discussion of what you like (or what you don’t) and what you wouldn’t mind trying in the future. You’d be surprised at how open they might actually be to fulfilling those desires. As for kinks – this doesn’t just mean BDSM, and sex in dungeons. This is a simple as a blindfold, light biting, some hair pulling, spanking and maybe even a little choking. See what you both like. Again, You might be surprised.

11) Have a bedside tool kit!

sex tool kit toolset I’m meaning the fun kind of tool kit! This is also something you can do together. Massage oils, lubricants (from flavored to long lasting), wrist restraints, blindfold, to a little vibrating bullet. The options are endless but the point is to start somewhere. Honestly, depending how you use these fun tools, they can help amplify orgasms, increase closeness between you and your partner and just add a little thrill to your bedroom routine. And we have all for you here! What’s not to love about that….
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Cunnilingus Tips – Expert’s Guide To Cunnilingus

15 Jun
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Cunnilingus is oral sex performed on women and is greatly satisfying for most women. So if you haven't perfected your oral sex technique, you're most likely going to have some cunnilingus performance anxiety. But when cunnilingus is performed well, it will impress you to a partner like nothing else can.

So whether you're a seasoned cunnilingus expert or are a beginner, here are a few oral sex tips to improve your cunnilingus technique. Start off by finding a comfortable position, as this will help with stamina as well as your own personal pleasure. Firstly try licking her like an ice cream cone. Use some big soft licks with a wide flat tongue to stimulate all the nerves in the genital area.

Go slow to make her feel like a yummy dessert being savoured, then you can speed it up a bit while focusing more on the clitoris. This will help to push her towards orgasm. It's important to build up the intensity level gradually and once you're into it, try to use your whole face to bury yourself in the vagina area. Get your tongue in as far as you can, or use your nose for more added pressure. Not only does this feel good, it lets her know you are really into the taste and sensations.

Overview

  • Get comfortable and enjoy the moment
  • Use your tongue, fingers and adult products to spice things up
  • Try flavoured lubricants if you don't like the taste
  • Use personal wipes beforehand for a fresh taste
  • Try different positions and communicate
  • Keep a rhythm to stimulate
  • Get your whole face into it to create pressure
  • Experiment and keep an open mind

Naughty But Nice believes that if your eyebrows aren't sticky, then you're not doing it right! You can also insert fingers in her vagina while licking the clit. As your tongue licks up pull down with your fingers so that you get a rhythm going.

Rev things up even more by slipping a G-spot vibrating adult toy into her while you're going down on her. She will love it! You can also use this vibrating adult toy under your chin, to give your mouth that wonderful vibrational feeling! If lying back during cunnilingus is too inactive for her, then simply let her hop on top. From there she can control the pressure and area of contact.

To make this position even more fun, use some basic bondage gear adult toys and get tied down to the bed before she starts. Just licking up and down means that chances are that it will get boring for both parties involved. So it's a good idea to vary your movements, use your lips, sex toys and flavoured lube in addition to your tongue. Gentle suction is a nice variation on the licks and lick it while maintaining the suction.

Also change positions, and use your hands. If you really want to give something special, you can enjoy her anus by using a dental dam to protect your mouth. The sky's the limits, so remember to get your whole creative mind involved.

Most women orgasm in response to rhythmic stimulation, so if you're in a groove that is building her up, don't suddenly change what you're doing. Finding the balance between variety and consistency is the art to being an oral sex expert. The juicier your make it, the better it feels. Experiment with edible lubricant or maybe some lubricants that warms when you blow on it. For gentle, hygienic cleansing before hand, you might like to try some personal wipes to keep things tasting fresh.

Cunnilingus is an age old favourite for couples wanting to create close intimacy and vaginal stimulation in a interesting and sexy new way. If you follow the tips provided and introduce some sex toys or adult products, you'll soon be teasing and pleasing her into orgasmic pleasure in no time at all!

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Top Sex Tips for Women

11 Jun
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Top Sex Tips for Women

Sex… It never needs to be complicated but let’s face it, men and women are chalk and cheese. And sometimes understanding what the other sex desires is not always as easy as it looks. Men themselves are complex creatures (and they say us women are difficult… pfff) but they are also simple in their needs and desires also. Always be as confident as you can. Being enthralled in your sexiness can help take their mind off their own insecurities (and believe me they have just as many insecurities as us women).

1) Take control

Communication during sex is the ultimate key to great sex, and this does not mean “dirty talk” although that is also fun. We mean communicating on what you like or what you don’t. if you don’t like something then say it. It’s not doing anyone any favors if you don’t express how you do or don’t like something. Don’t rely on ambiguous gestures and noises. If you don’t like something, then guide them to how you would prefer it – sex is not the time to be shy. You want to try something in a different angle? Then say it. Generally, it’s expected that the guy be the dominant one in a sexual encounter. We say – why? Turn it around and you take over. Keep him on his toes (you’ll probably even see a little sparkle in his eye)

2) Do your part

Let’s face it nothing is worse than a sexual partner who just lays there (like a dead fish). Get motivated, be into it! Its sex! It’s meant to be fun! If you’re just going to lay there then really you’re nothing better than a slightly warmer blow up doll. Look we get it, even Great sex can get a little bit monotonous so change it up – try sex in a new location. Maybe the lounge, in the car or even on the kitchen bench! Maybe try a little role play, or maybe something as sensual as taking a bath together.

3) Fore – what? Foreplay!

Men need foreplay too! Yes you read that correctly. Think of it as an intro into the main event. And we don’t just mean a stroke here and a rub there. Mental Foreplay. This can start throughout the day. Little texts and messages throughout the day. Romance, seduction and every emotional aspect of sex works on men too. A lot of the fun in foreplay is in the mind – so have fun with it.

4) Quality over Quantity

More sex doesn’t mean better sex! If you are concerned that you and your partner aren’t bonking like rabbits. Don’t. Most couples have sex once a week and it’s been found that the more energy you are putting into your regular weekly romp the better it is over the long haul. You may think that men want sex 100% of the time. Not the case. Don’t always wait for him to initiate. If you’re in the mood , and he’s not acting, then GO FOR IT. Dirty talk! The power of some sexy banter in the bedroom is seriously underplayed. Not the easiest thing for some woman to do without feeling like a fish out of water. Read an erotic novel and get ideas from there. So…many…naughty…innuendoes. And ladies – talk to your gal pals. You’d be surprised with the things some of them have stored in their dirty talk vault.

5) Exercise & done skimp out on the D! (vitamin D!..)

Believe it or not, exercise is good for your sex drive. Exercise improves the circulation in your body, and this includes the blood to your genitals. This extra flow of blood increases your desire and lifts your mood. And really when did those endorphins ever really hurt anyone? And as for the vitamin D, we weren’t kidding about it being good for your sexual health. Too much sun can damage the skin (we have all heard the slip, slop, slap motto), vitamin D is essential for estrogen production in women and testosterone production in men. It boosts your libido. Have you ever noticed that you tend to feel on the friskier side during those summer months – well this is the reason why.

6) Experiment & Kinks

Have you got a kink? You will need to tell them. Especially if it’s of the variety of liking a bit of choking around the neck, or maybe you like your hair pulled. These are things you need to voice as they aren’t likely to just go out on a limb and assume that’s your thing or whether doing so will put them in jail. If you want something, then just ask for it. (there’s that communication thing again…) Shopping for toys together can also be fun. (Naughty but Nice online has everything you need by the way – if you were wondering where to go). This could mean couple vibrators, to massage oils and flavored lubricants to blindfolds and handcuffs.

7) They love how you taste down there!

So you haven’t had time to tame hairs on your legs, nor have you been able “freshen” up down there, and you don’t smell like you’ve walked through a field of bath bombs. Don’t stress! As long as you have the basic hygiene under control, it’s really not the be all to end all if you aren’t pristine at all times down there. A lot of women can get really self conscious about this – but don’t worry. Men actually love the way you taste down there. But while I’m on the talk of oral – don’t do it halfway. Men love also love the act of receiving and if you’re doing it half-assed or like it’s some kind of chore, he will sense this. Honestly ladies – try some flavored lubricants, You’ll be sucking like it’s your last dessert. Just remember males will be ultra sensitive down there after oral also. So be gentle ladies.

8) Morning and Afternoon delight

Men and women handle the weekly life stresses differently and because of this, couples can sometimes feel a little mismatched. You aren’t alone. Men see sex as a stress reliever while women want to have sex after they’ve had time to unwind… See the issue here?! So an alternative is to have sex in the morning! (ignoring any morning breathe) A males testosterone levels peak in the morning. Another alternative is to have sex on the weekend in the afternoon. A little weekend afternoon delight! Women tend to ovulate in the afternoon, this means the optimal hormone level for female sexual desire is during this time. Don’t forget sex is a lot of cardio – so don’t be afraid to jump on top and take the reins for a bit – he will appreciate it. Lastly, don’t forget to pee after sex! It honestly surprises us how many women don’t understand the importance of doing this within 30min of having sex. UTI’s are real ladies!
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