Top Sex Tips for Men
Top Sex Tips for Men
Believe it or not great lovers are made, not born. It takes effort, time and patience. Woman aren’t the easiest creatures to understand on the planet, believe me I know. I am one, and sometimes I don’t even understand myself. So it can be tricky to get an understanding of what works best for us in the bedroom. And regardless of how expert you believe you may be – I’m telling you now, it can be improved. But don’t stress, we will share a few great tips with you here.1) The power of kisses
Now I’m not meaning go in mouth wide open and eat her face off. Stop it. No one enjoys that. No I mean, remember the good ole days back in high school where you would make out for hours and hours – and that would be the whole point of it. I mean that. Do that. Believe it or not the way you and your partner kiss can say a lot about the connectedness you guys have. My advice – take it slow, taste her. Take the time to really enjoy each other in the most simple non complex but beautiful way. Feel her lips, press your body into hers, hold her, smell her hair. Just take your time. That is what I mean.
2) Extend Foreplay – by A LOT
Foreplay is not a quick rub down there and she’s good to go. Nope just nope. Male and females are very different when it comes to foreplay. For one a females sexual energy begins in the extremities and works its way towards the genitals. Basically I’m just saying in a bit of a fancier way that females take longer to warm up. Guys if you do take the time to “warm” her up the rewards will be amazing. And honestly it doesn’t take a lot. Massage oils, give her a sensual body massage.
Work your hands all over her body but as you get closer to her genital area slowly move away, believe me the anticipation will definitely build up. Maybe try light kisses up her body, gently around her neck and ears – all erogenous zones of the female body. By extending the time on foreplay, you will both have more time to build up into the moment therefore giving a higher possibility to achieve more powerful orgasms and maybe even multiple orgasms. Now really what’s not to love about that?
3) The “other” form of foreplay
You’re probably asking – “what there’s another form of foreplay?” - why yes there is. I’m talking about those common household chores that can sometimes build up. You know, those ones that you hear her get a little annoyed with. The laundry, the dishes, vac the floor, hell even make the bed. It’s really hard for women to focus and turn off their minds if they are surrounded by those pesky household chores.
So fellas – honor yourself, and honor your relationship and help remove those mental road blocks from her mind as much as you can. Pick up/fold the laundry, vacuum, wash those dishes, take out the rubbish! She’ll be very appreciative. Very……
4) The power of words
Dirty talk. It’s not just hot for you guys but us women don’t mind it too. But please don’t be corny with it. Dirty talk can be hot, real hot – but do it right. Before sex – tell her what you want to do to her. What you want them to do to you. During sex – tell her what feels so good to you in that moment. After sex – tell her what you loved about the experience you guys just shared. We all like a little praise, especially with something as personal as that.
5) Chill down on the porn!
Now don’t freak at this. I don’t mean completely stop. Some ladies actually do like to watch it along with you. I just mean stop watching so…much….of…..it. Studies have actually proven that watching even a moderate amount can mess with one’s mind (and your ability to perform sexually, cough, cough…) You know when your browsing through a porn, you will actually scroll on through the different scenes in one single viewing session – well guys this causes your mind to create a habit of wanting arousal addiction which means your mind wants constant variety.
Not real great when you’re in the midst of a session with your one partner (and you can’t actually click her through to another person). You will actually find your mind under stimulated and it can be a common cause for men (of ALL ages) to suffer a little erectile dysfunction because of it. Basically, Shorten those porn sessions guys. You’ll enjoy much stronger erections because of it.
6) Make some noise
You guys enjoy it when you can hear her having a great time during those hot and steamy sessions. Well us ladies also like to hear that you to are also enjoying yourself. I think the biggest complaint of had from females is that they find their partner to quiet in the sack. This is not the time to be quiet. Your partner will appreciate it if you moan, grunt, growl (in a non creepy way) or dirty talk more in bed. We like to know your enjoying yourself. It’s a big turn on for us.
7) Try sex in different locations
Sex doesn’t have to be reserved only for just the bedroom. Use your imagination. Sex in the shower (Naughty but Nice online also has show sex toys specifically available to help make this easier), how about in the bathroom whilst your both getting ready in the morning, in the car (and yes the car can even just be parked in your garage still) Really the options are endless. Use your imagination. But also stay a little cautious. No one wants to find themselves on the wrong side of the law for public nudity…. Although would make a great story.
Have a date night – maybe even book a night away in a hotel (especially good if you have children at home) what’s not to love about a night out, a night of uninterrupted passion where you can just wake up, and leave. And for those friskier ideas, how about pulling your partners pants down whilst she’s doing the dishes or prepping food and go down on her right there at the kitchen bench. Do with that bit inspiration what you wish….
8) Go down, down
Oral sex isn’t just for the boys. I think a lot of males see oral sex as a brief pit stop instead of a major destination in itself. So let’s face it. A lot of you haven’t really taken the time to master your skills and work on your energy in perfecting that tongue disco. In a way this is not all bad news for you. Because now if you actually put in a little effort into your approach and technique, then I have no doubt you’ll set yourself way ahead of the rest of the pack.
Not all women are the same (not really a shock though) so yes what made one lady clawing the back of your head at might not really do the same to another. The trick here is to settle in, get comfortable, take your time and listen out for those tell tale signs of what she likes when her body responds in the moment. Don’t rush it. Trust me when I say by the time you are through, she'll be all kinds of blissed out, doe-eyed, looking at you like you’re an absolute rock star.
9) Touch and Play
Touch your partner throughout the day. You know, grab their butt, when she walks by – give it a fun tap here and there. When your laying on the couch watching a movie – stroke your fingers gently through her hair. Nibble gently on her neck, or when you kiss her, kiss her like you mean it. Touch is such a strong sense. And relationships that have a high touch count are relationships that truly go the distance. That physical contact keeps that sexual simmer going throughout the whole entire day. It really makes your entire relationship an act of foreplay.
10) Share your Fantasies and Kinks!
Guys are always asking us ladies what our fantasies are so the same goes with you. Do you know what your ultimate sexual life would be? If so, share it with your other half. Be open and honest. Open communication in any relationship is extremely important for it to be successful. Regardless of how connected you feel you are, they aren’t mind readers. So the only way they’ll know is if you tell them. This means having an open and honest discussion of what you like (or what you don’t) and what you wouldn’t mind trying in the future.
You’d be surprised at how open they might actually be to fulfilling those desires. As for kinks – this doesn’t just mean BDSM, and sex in dungeons. This is a simple as a blindfold, light biting, some hair pulling, spanking and maybe even a little choking. See what you both like. Again, You might be surprised.
11) Have a bedside tool kit!
I’m meaning the fun kind of tool kit! This is also something you can do together. Massage oils, lubricants (from flavored to long lasting), wrist restraints, blindfold, to a little vibrating bullet. The options are endless but the point is to start somewhere. Honestly, depending how you use these fun tools, they can help amplify orgasms, increase closeness between you and your partner and just add a little thrill to your bedroom routine. And we have all for you here! What’s not to love about that…. 
Cunnilingus Tips – Expert’s Guide To Cunnilingus
Cunnilingus is oral sex performed on women and is greatly satisfying for most women. So if you haven't perfected your oral sex technique, you're most likely going to have some cunnilingus performance anxiety. But when cunnilingus is performed well, it will impress you to a partner like nothing else can.
So whether you're a seasoned cunnilingus expert or are a beginner, here are a few oral sex tips to improve your cunnilingus technique. Start off by finding a comfortable position, as this will help with stamina as well as your own personal pleasure. Firstly try licking her like an ice cream cone. Use some big soft licks with a wide flat tongue to stimulate all the nerves in the genital area.
Go slow to make her feel like a yummy dessert being savoured, then you can speed it up a bit while focusing more on the clitoris. This will help to push her towards orgasm. It's important to build up the intensity level gradually and once you're into it, try to use your whole face to bury yourself in the vagina area. Get your tongue in as far as you can, or use your nose for more added pressure. Not only does this feel good, it lets her know you are really into the taste and sensations.
Overview
- Get comfortable and enjoy the moment
- Use your tongue, fingers and adult products to spice things up
- Try flavoured lubricants if you don't like the taste
- Use personal wipes beforehand for a fresh taste
- Try different positions and communicate
- Keep a rhythm to stimulate
- Get your whole face into it to create pressure
- Experiment and keep an open mind
Naughty But Nice believes that if your eyebrows aren't sticky, then you're not doing it right! You can also insert fingers in her vagina while licking the clit. As your tongue licks up pull down with your fingers so that you get a rhythm going.
Rev things up even more by slipping a G-spot vibrating adult toy into her while you're going down on her. She will love it! You can also use this vibrating adult toy under your chin, to give your mouth that wonderful vibrational feeling! If lying back during cunnilingus is too inactive for her, then simply let her hop on top. From there she can control the pressure and area of contact.
To make this position even more fun, use some basic bondage gear adult toys and get tied down to the bed before she starts. Just licking up and down means that chances are that it will get boring for both parties involved. So it's a good idea to vary your movements, use your lips, sex toys and flavoured lube in addition to your tongue. Gentle suction is a nice variation on the licks and lick it while maintaining the suction.
Also change positions, and use your hands. If you really want to give something special, you can enjoy her anus by using a dental dam to protect your mouth. The sky's the limits, so remember to get your whole creative mind involved.
Most women orgasm in response to rhythmic stimulation, so if you're in a groove that is building her up, don't suddenly change what you're doing. Finding the balance between variety and consistency is the art to being an oral sex expert. The juicier your make it, the better it feels. Experiment with edible lubricant or maybe some lubricants that warms when you blow on it. For gentle, hygienic cleansing before hand, you might like to try some personal wipes to keep things tasting fresh.
Cunnilingus is an age old favourite for couples wanting to create close intimacy and vaginal stimulation in a interesting and sexy new way. If you follow the tips provided and introduce some sex toys or adult products, you'll soon be teasing and pleasing her into orgasmic pleasure in no time at all!
Top Sex Tips for Women
Top Sex Tips for Women
Sex… It never needs to be complicated but let’s face it, men and women are chalk and cheese. And sometimes understanding what the other sex desires is not always as easy as it looks. Men themselves are complex creatures (and they say us women are difficult… pfff) but they are also simple in their needs and desires also. Always be as confident as you can. Being enthralled in your sexiness can help take their mind off their own insecurities (and believe me they have just as many insecurities as us women).1) Take control
Communication during sex is the ultimate key to great sex, and this does not mean “dirty talk” although that is also fun. We mean communicating on what you like or what you don’t. if you don’t like something then say it. It’s not doing anyone any favors if you don’t express how you do or don’t like something. Don’t rely on ambiguous gestures and noises. If you don’t like something, then guide them to how you would prefer it – sex is not the time to be shy. You want to try something in a different angle? Then say it. Generally, it’s expected that the guy be the dominant one in a sexual encounter. We say – why? Turn it around and you take over. Keep him on his toes (you’ll probably even see a little sparkle in his eye)2) Do your part
Let’s face it nothing is worse than a sexual partner who just lays there (like a dead fish). Get motivated, be into it! Its sex! It’s meant to be fun! If you’re just going to lay there then really you’re nothing better than a slightly warmer blow up doll. Look we get it, even Great sex can get a little bit monotonous so change it up – try sex in a new location. Maybe the lounge, in the car or even on the kitchen bench! Maybe try a little role play, or maybe something as sensual as taking a bath together.3) Fore – what? Foreplay!
Men need foreplay too! Yes you read that correctly. Think of it as an intro into the main event. And we don’t just mean a stroke here and a rub there. Mental Foreplay. This can start throughout the day. Little texts and messages throughout the day. Romance, seduction and every emotional aspect of sex works on men too. A lot of the fun in foreplay is in the mind – so have fun with it.4) Quality over Quantity
More sex doesn’t mean better sex! If you are concerned that you and your partner aren’t bonking like rabbits. Don’t. Most couples have sex once a week and it’s been found that the more energy you are putting into your regular weekly romp the better it is over the long haul. You may think that men want sex 100% of the time. Not the case. Don’t always wait for him to initiate. If you’re in the mood , and he’s not acting, then GO FOR IT. Dirty talk! The power of some sexy banter in the bedroom is seriously underplayed. Not the easiest thing for some woman to do without feeling like a fish out of water. Read an erotic novel and get ideas from there. So…many…naughty…innuendoes. And ladies – talk to your gal pals. You’d be surprised with the things some of them have stored in their dirty talk vault.5) Exercise & done skimp out on the D! (vitamin D!..)
Believe it or not, exercise is good for your sex drive. Exercise improves the circulation in your body, and this includes the blood to your genitals. This extra flow of blood increases your desire and lifts your mood. And really when did those endorphins ever really hurt anyone? And as for the vitamin D, we weren’t kidding about it being good for your sexual health. Too much sun can damage the skin (we have all heard the slip, slop, slap motto), vitamin D is essential for estrogen production in women and testosterone production in men. It boosts your libido. Have you ever noticed that you tend to feel on the friskier side during those summer months – well this is the reason why.6) Experiment & Kinks
Have you got a kink? You will need to tell them. Especially if it’s of the variety of liking a bit of choking around the neck, or maybe you like your hair pulled. These are things you need to voice as they aren’t likely to just go out on a limb and assume that’s your thing or whether doing so will put them in jail. If you want something, then just ask for it. (there’s that communication thing again…) Shopping for toys together can also be fun. (Naughty but Nice online has everything you need by the way – if you were wondering where to go). This could mean couple vibrators, to massage oils and flavored lubricants to blindfolds and handcuffs.7) They love how you taste down there!
So you haven’t had time to tame hairs on your legs, nor have you been able “freshen” up down there, and you don’t smell like you’ve walked through a field of bath bombs. Don’t stress! As long as you have the basic hygiene under control, it’s really not the be all to end all if you aren’t pristine at all times down there. A lot of women can get really self conscious about this – but don’t worry. Men actually love the way you taste down there. But while I’m on the talk of oral – don’t do it halfway. Men love also love the act of receiving and if you’re doing it half-assed or like it’s some kind of chore, he will sense this. Honestly ladies – try some flavored lubricants, You’ll be sucking like it’s your last dessert. Just remember males will be ultra sensitive down there after oral also. So be gentle ladies.8) Morning and Afternoon delight
Men and women handle the weekly life stresses differently and because of this, couples can sometimes feel a little mismatched. You aren’t alone. Men see sex as a stress reliever while women want to have sex after they’ve had time to unwind… See the issue here?! So an alternative is to have sex in the morning! (ignoring any morning breathe) A males testosterone levels peak in the morning. Another alternative is to have sex on the weekend in the afternoon. A little weekend afternoon delight! Women tend to ovulate in the afternoon, this means the optimal hormone level for female sexual desire is during this time. Don’t forget sex is a lot of cardio – so don’t be afraid to jump on top and take the reins for a bit – he will appreciate it. Lastly, don’t forget to pee after sex! It honestly surprises us how many women don’t understand the importance of doing this within 30min of having sex. UTI’s are real ladies!
Best Rechargeable Vibrators
Best rechargeable Vibrators
We really are spoilt by choice these days when it comes to quality, functionality and style of adult products that are available these days. One particular style is the range of rechargeable vibrators that we now have the option of choosing compared to their battery counterparts not to mention that price point in comparison – rechargeable toys are fast becoming the much better option. Over the past couple of years we have seen a vast improvement in the quality of rechargeable adult products. They are more reliable, quality designed and ultra powerful. You will find that they are generally made from the highest quality materials which long term will last much longer and are much nicer on the human body. Plus did I mention they usually carry a 12 month warranty, with some brands even offering 5 years!What are the benefits of Rechargeable Vibrators?
The answer to this is simply – you get more bang for your buck. (well we should say more buzz)... If you take into consideration how many batteries the average household will go through in a year – it not only drains your wallet but those batteries (and let’s face it, you’d go through quite a few. Don’t deny it) also clog up landfills with dangerous chemicals. So really if you want to save money and also save the environment then rechargeable is the much better option. You’ll never have that late night remote battery raid when your adult toy decides to die out at that crucial point. Not to mention most rechargeable adult toys are stronger, last longer, and whisper quiet - No one likes to hear their toy rattle the windows.What’s best?
The choice is completely yours. What type of stimulation are you after? Is it something you want to use with a partner? Is it for penetration or external stimulation? Maybe you want both! There are so many brands now joining in with the rechargeable market, some at a more affordable prices and some at a more higher end price point (which has all the bells and whistles you could possibly dream of in a sex toy) To give you some help, here are some of the top selling brands: Evolved – This brand revolutionises quality. It boasts a 5 year warranty on its products and you DONT need to register the toy! (it’s hard enough registering your new fridge let alone doing it for your personal pleasure product). You will pay a little more for this brand but the benefits and peace of mind you get – did we say 5 YEARS! far outweigh the cost. They are sleek, versatile, elegant and available in many playful colours. They are also completely waterproof so you don’t need to worry if you ever want to use your new toy in the bath, shower or even the spa. Evolved has been a leader in adult pleasure products and they continue to grow, offering an amazing range to females, males and couples you can be assured your pleasure is going to be well looked after. Fun Factory – You can feel the love from this fun brand. Made from 100% high grade medical silicone. Another high end rechargeable range that takes absolute pride in every detail of their product range. They are lustrous, strong, waterproof and available in an array of bright, fun colours. With a 12 month warranty they have exciting sex toys for singles and couples for all kinds of pleasure play. If love comes from heaven then we have a little bit of heaven right here at Naughty But Nice Online. Swan Vibe – This exquisite, award winning collection is all class. Swan vibes are one of the world’s first completely 100% covered silicone range that offers end-to-end usage. It’s a seamless, smooth, classy design that offers versatility and limitless pleasure. Boasting a 12 month warranty, these super charged motors, 100% waterproof masterpieces offer illustrious strength and nothing but the best in advanced sophistication. We-vibe – We-vibe is the highest selling couples toy worldwide. Boasting over 2 million people worldwide using this amazing rechargeable couples brand. We’d honestly be surprised if you haven’t actually come across this gem via conversation with someone. They not only have one of the best couples toys available they also have an array of high-end rechargeable adult toys so there is something for everyone. We-vibe prides itself on developing intimate products that work in sync with the human body. Knowing that no two bodies are the same, they use state of the art techniques that ensure their products stay at the top of their industry for ergonomic design, performance and quality all whilst remaining eco-friendly and completely body safe.No Regrets, and look after your planet!
Practical, value for money, quality and stylish – rechargeable vibrators are easy to use. Simply plug in the vibe and wait. Charge time is usually short and sweet and you get hours of playtime between each charge. Most recharge adult products use USB chargers – just like your android and iPhone smart phones. This also makes it extremely versatile if you wanted to take your buzzing partner away with you on your travels. Everyone needs to remember that sex should ALWAYS be fun and carefree, never negligent. We can very easily overlook being responsible – not just with our bodies but for our homes and even our planet. By removing the amount of landfill we produce by eliminating the need for batteries by using rechargeable Adult Toys we are in fact taking care of our planet. Which in fact will allow many more generations to come enjoy GREAT sex!! Really, we are just looking out for our descendants!....
Bondage Toys – The Ultimate Guide
Bondage Toys
Most couples will delve into the world of bondage (BDSM) even if it’s a small as a blindfold or simple handcuffs. The truth is Bondage play can be very kinky (its limits are completely up to you) but also quite romantic and sensual as well. However, if you are a novice then some parts of the bondage language will be completely foreign to you – which is very common. Some names of bondage toys associated in the Bondage category can take quite a bit to grasp the concept of what it is and what it is you actually do with it. But once you get the hang of it the simple act of being restrained and giving your lover the power offers a new physical experience and a much tighter feel of trust and closeness to you both.Ball gags
Ball gags are designed to mute the voice of your partner making them submit to you and give you complete control. They can come in an array of styles – mouth hook gags, bit gags, hollow gags and solid ball gags. Ball gags should in no way obstruct on the wearers breathing as its strapped over or around the head and the “ball” part sits inside the lips/teeth. Due to not allowing the wearer to talk communication needs to become more creative so the partner has a better understanding of their partners requirements. (also an idea to have a form of hand signal to let the other person know if you require the gag removed at any point during play) Ball gags will muffle the moans of pleasure and is great for beginners through to the more advanced Bondage enthusiasts.Blindfolds, & hoods
Blindfolds allow you to remove the sense of sight which in return heightens every other sense – particularly touch! They are available in a array of colours and materials from satin, silk, leather and fur. A blindfold creates a sense of mystery and the wearer who might be a little more coy is highly likely to feel less self conscious about experimenting with their sight hidden allowing you to explore more is fantasies and role play. Hoods (a more intermediate bondage accessory) covers a little more than your standard blindfold – they tend to cover half the head, the face or all of it. They can have open eyes, nose or mouths and be made from materials like lace, spandex and leather. The purpose of the hood is to change the appearance of the wearer and for more sensory deprivation which in return increases the sense of anticipation for sexual contact which heightens mental arousal.Paddles, whips and crops
These are as fun as they sound. Whether it’s a slap or a tickle there’s definitely one to suit absolutely anyone and everyone. They can be made from an array of materials including: PVC, wood, leather and maybe with an added bit of fur in the mix as well as an array of sizes and shapes. Once you experience one you will want to very quickly add to your collection. Whips will tease and tickle your most sensitive areas. Whether it’s a flick or a glide over the skin you will gasp for more. Paddles offer a more audible “thwack” on the skin (hence why it’s used on those more fleshy areas of the body), that noise coming from a paddle offers a sensory play stimulation and accentuates the experience of being spanked. Crops offer a more sharper sting. It’s worthwhile starting softer and gradually building up to avoid any unnecessary harm to your bed buddy. So whether you’re playing master or servant or just want to see your partner shiver in anticipation and satisfaction, you are sure to awaken all the nerve endings and give that ultimate adrenaline rush in your spanking. The anticipation alone has us quivering!Collars & Leashes
Delve into your deepest BDSM fantasies by allowing your partner take complete control of you (or over you) with a collar and leash. Submit to their demands. There is a huge selection of luxurious collars available – from plain, supple leather, PVC, Spiked, Jewelled, coloured and furry. Most will have an O-ring at the front that allows the connection for a leash, rope, and harnesses to be attached to them. They are the ultimate accessory that aren’t just worn in the bedroom but can very easily be worn out and about. A collar worn on its own can also be a symbol of ownership (consensual of course) but if you are anything like us they are a “cute” accessory also. Collars offer a more deeper intimacy with your partner as you both explore the ventures of power play.Ropes & Restraints
The fun stuff! I don’t think I’ve ever crossed paths with anyone who didn’t get a thrill from either being restrained or being the restrainer. A simple handcuff is truly a necessary part of every bondage toy collection! Simple to use and ultra sexy, the range of handcuffs is endless. Choose from – satin and lace, heavy duty metal, fluffy and furry, leather and faux leather. Ones with buckles and locks, Velcro and easy release. There are so many different variations when it comes to restraints/handcuffs that the possibilities are never ending. There’s standard wrist cuffs, ankle cuffs, bed restraints, under the bed restraints (our top seller), hogties cuff sets, and ones you can add rope through. The first step (and the hardest if you ask us) which one do you start with first!? Rope is a specially designed item that is aimed for people who find enjoyment in getting tied up. Bondage tape is also another alternative that is self adhesive, and skin-safe. Rope should NEVER be substituted for the ropes that can be found in your DIY stores. These ropes will be much harder and harsher against the skin and can very easily cause harm. The rope you will find at Naughty But Nice online is specifically designed to be soft on the skin and flexible enough to tie intricate knots into. Who knew a simple knot could be so sensual!?Nipple clamps
Nipples are one of the most sensitive part of your body (for both men and woman!) and due to this is also one of the most responsive. Your nipples are full of nerve endings that react almost instantly to any stimulation (we’ve all experienced that hard nipple feel in the cold...). this can create an increase in pleasure which can lead to more powerful orgasms. You could try nipple suckers to keep them hard and erect, clamps that clasp on the sensitive nipple area (some with jewels, beads or chains), ones that vibrate and can double as a clitoral stimulator as well (double the fun!) and just go a plain stainless steel style that you can heat up in boiling water and freeze for more intense sensory play.Trust, communication and play
Trust and communication is key when delving into the world of BDSM. You are surrendering your control to your partner. So it is highly recommended to have a safety word – you might ask yourself why do I need a safety word, is it really that scary? Well this tells both parties that there is complete trust whatever scenario you get into. Well we have a safety word in sex in general – which is “no” but during bondage play no can be sometimes be a part of the “playtime” so if you have a word like “purple” or “Pineapple” then things are more likely to stop immediately. Bondage play building a relationship around trust, you’re giving yourself to your partner – this is not just about “sensations” – it can actually be really romantic. If you have any questions at all regarding bondage toys be sure to contact the friendly staff at Wicked Desires today!
Top 10 Benefits of “Sex” Toys
Let us start off with firstly saying that sex toys will never replace that intimate skin to skin contact you desire when you are with another person, but it does come real close.... There is nothing better than combining the two and partake in a threesome with a buzzing buddy. Having great sex helps promote health and well being by improving your mood and physically making you feel good. Using a sex toy can spice up a flagging sex life and bring a bit of added fun into your life. Adding the sex toy into the mix will not only make you feel great but it will also promote your circulation and release the “feel good factors” during an orgasm.
No one is being replaced
At no point should any partner feel like they are being replaced. There is absolutely no replacement when it comes to live, human contact. Sexual toys should always be looked at as sexual enhancements. They are a nice and intimate way to help increase the connection to your partner experience. Another misconception to avoid is assuming that your partner will not like the idea of using a sex toy. There is still a stigma in society that makes some people feel like a pervert or that they will be rejected by their partner for suggesting the idea. But if you look at the stats 46-66% of couples are using adult toys in the bedroom. In fact majority of those brave enough to discuss the subject of sex toys, their partners were completely on board!What are the benefits of Sex Toys?
- Adult toys deliver pleasure (particularly the buzzy ones!)... If your partner is happy (and satisfied) then you will be happy too!
- Good sex, increases libido
- Couple orientated adult toys get people out of the “performance” mindset and more into the “pleasure” mode – KEEPING COUPLES TOGETHER.
- Adding a little bed toy can help prevent boredom. Keeping it exciting and interesting.
- Do a little show and tell. Show your partner how you like it. There is nothing more sexy to your partner then getting to watch you enjoy yourself.
- Adult toys can rejuvenate vaginas. Females can have fluctuating hormone levels which can cause vaginal tightness, dryness and atrophy. These can all cause painful sex and decrease sex drive. Vibrators can relieve these symptoms. Promoting vaginal lubrication as well as improve sexual sensation.
- Men can also benefit from the use of sex toys also. Men who use them are less likely to be burdened with erectile dysfunction, difficulty orgasming and low sex drive. Men are also likely to be more aware of their sexual health and take notice of any abnormalities quicker.
- Female orgasms can be reached quicker with the added stimulation of an adult toy. On average a male can take 3-5min whereas a woman can take 20min – using the adult toy can even up that discrepancy a little bit.
- Sex toys vibrations can save tired mouths and fingers! (we’ve all been there!)
- When you use a wand (body massager), this is a great warm up to sex. It is especially good for woman as it helps relax and de-stress before getting in the mood. Paying attention to how your partner responds with this, will make you become more in tune with their non-verbal cues. Sharing is caring! Experience pleasure together will make you feel closer.
How to use a glass dildo
Glass has become more and more popular and now the variety out there is so huge, that it’s easy to get caught up in the fad that is glass dildos. What’s not to love? They are functional, have a beautiful visual appeal and the perfect way to experiment in sensory play. The smoothness of the glass plus the smooth penetration equals mighty pleasure.
So many choices
From twisted, curved glass dildos to ones with ridges and bumps, you’ll even find some with vibration. The majority of glass dildos are made from high quality borosilicate glass, making it durable, safe and sturdy. It can be heated up in warm water or cooled down in your freezer for intense variations in temperature. Varying the temperature of a glass dildo intensifies orgasms beyond belief not to mention feels great on the clitoris and during penetration.Is it safe to warm up or cool down?
It is completely safe to use your glass dildo warm or cold for sensory play. There are some precautions to take though. When warming your glass dildo, do so with water from the hot tap. This helps ensure equal distribution of warmth to your glass dildo. It should only take a couple of minutes (depending on the size). Avoid heating it up in the microwave – the glass dildo is sturdy enough however the microwave will cause uneven hot spots which could potentially burn your most sensitive parts if not checked properly. Warmth feels good, feels comfortable and feels inviting. Anywhere you touch with a warm glass dildo will become more sensitive quickly. The warmth will help the more sensitive parts of your body engorge with blood more quickly. Slide the warm dildo over your clitoris and your labia will react quickly creating your natural fluids flow quickly. Try using it in the g-spot. A warm glass dildo makes you more sensitive – a quick route to orgasm. It is completely ok to cool your glass dildo down in the fridge or freezer, however you should note that if you do choose to freeze it slightly you need to take note of how cold the glass dildo is.... Cold, dry, frozen glass will stick to warm, moist body parts. Play safe. Cold play can be a nice change if you’re a little flushed, the cold can offer a tingle that can be quite wonderful. Using the cold glass dildo on the clitoris can cause the blood vessels to “reset”. Many woman find they get highly sensitive after climax so the touch of the cool dildo can calm down the blood vessels and get you ready for round 2.Experiment
Glass dildos are extremely beautiful to look at. When it comes to these glistening beauties, a well cared for glass dildo will long outlast any plastic alternative and will prove even more versatile. Experiment with the different textures of the glass dildo by rolling it over your body. Shoulders, backs, it feels great when rubbed over the clitoris or the shaft of the penis. When you use the glass dildo for penetration twist it whilst it is inside you. The different textures will feel great against the vaginal walls. Try rocking the dildo inside you instead of thrusting with it. This will help provide a firm stimulation for reaching those sweet spots.Easy care
Because they are made out of glass, they are completely hypoallergenic. Making them completely safe for ALL users. Cleaning your glass dildo is super easy as they are non-porous meaning no harmful bacteria can attach itself to your toy! After use simply wash your toy with a proper adult toy cleaner. You can also pop it into your dishwasher! As for lubricants you can experiment to your heart’s content. Water-based, or silicone based, flavoured or warming. The choices are endless for these. When storing your glass dildo pop it into a protective pouch – this protects your prized possessions from bashing into each other. you could also leave these beauties out on display. Maybe on your bedside or even a mantelpiece? Why not? They are a stunning work of art after all that should be admired and enjoyed!!
Best Shower Sex Toys
At some point we have all attempted to have sex in the shower or bath. Sometimes successfully and other times maybe not... let’s face it, the slippery surfaces, awkward angles, and confined space are huge factors to why shower/bath sex goes horribly wrong! There is however, a huge arrange of shower sex toys that are specially made to help make these awkward banging sessions a breeze. And who doesn’t like to get a little slippery when wet!
Come to grips!
First step is positioning yourself for shower sex. Limited space and slippery tiles can make it difficult & maybe a little dangerous. Thankfully we at Naughty but Nice online have this all sorted for you. The sex in the shower range has created some amazing shower sex products that allow you to grab onto something when there is nothing to grab onto. From foot rests, suction handles, to dual shower heads. This range offers you the perfect leverage to help you experiment all new positions safely. Might we add the foot rest is a handy little companion when you are shaving your legs. No more knicks to the knees or sliding legs down the wall!Suction play
The handy bonus to shower/bath sex is that the slick surface makes playing with suction based sex toys a whole lot of fun. Even better is that now a days this range is huge. And from suction non-vibrating dildos to vibrating suction dildos in a array of colours and sizes there’s an option to suit each and every need! These adult sex toys have been purposely made with your water-based pleasure in mind! A little hands free fun never hurt anyone....Not just for the ladies!
Water play is not just for the ladies. Most women have experimented using a shower head to masturbate, but did you know that this strong stream of water also feels great for him? Have you considered taking in a waterproof bullet (styles such as evolved little dipper or pillow talks flirty are great little companions for both him and her) and using this against the base of his penis during oral sex play. This will stimulate and encourage blood flow, giving him a stronger erection. Switch roles and use the bullet on her under water for a fun aquatic activity set to create wave after wave of pleasure. The Bathmate hydro pump range is also a top recommended male adult product from Wicked Desires Online. The Bathmate is a top quality male penis pumps available and works by harnessing the natural power of water to help you achieve successful desirable results in a safe, comfortable and efficient manner.Keep it slippery
Water does have a habit of washing away your natural body fluids so it’s a good choice to have something that will keep you slippery when playing in the shower/bath. Silicone lubricants are a great choice as they are water resistant and long lasting. It’s as easy as putting a little into your hands and rub into your body! It is important to remember though that silicone lubricants and silicone toys don’t mix! Many people will admit that the bathroom is the perfect place to escape a crowded house and the only place you can find a little privacy. Whatever the reason, couples and singles no longer have to rely on the erratic placement of the soap dish, the random height of shower heads or end up with a cold metal tap lodged in their nether regions to achieve sexual satisfaction in the shower/bath. We have everything you need have a hot and steamy time so you can focus on what feels good. Getting sexy and clean at the same time can be a whole lot of suds up fun. Come get wet!!!
How to orgasm with a vibrator
Experimenting with a vibrator can be fun and incredibly enjoyable. It will teach you not only what you enjoy in the bedroom on your own but also what you like while with a partner. First thing you should realise is that owning a vibrator is completely normal! If you at any point feel like its taboo to own one. Believe us when we say - It’s not! It’s not only normal but the variety out there is so big and vast that you have an array of options for you to choose from!