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Anal Sex Tips – The Ultimate Guide

28 Mar
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For many people the concept of anal sex is not something that particularly interests them. This could be because of all the misconceptions that can be associated with anal sex. Maybe you think that only gay men enjoy anal sex or use anal sex toys? Maybe you believe it will hurt way too much to even contemplate? Maybe you’ve never even considered the anus as an erotic area? Or maybe you just have no idea on how to actually even do it! Well I’m here to tell you that anyone – whether it be gay, straight, men, woman or couples. Everyone can enjoy the joys of anal sex play. Especially if it’s done right. If you talk to anyone that does practice this sex act you will most likely find that it in fact feels great!! You just have to get past those initial reservations. The anus is actually an area of your body that has an abundance of sensory nerve endings and pleasure points, which can lead to incredible orgasms. What’s not to love about that?!!

So Why Anal?

Well for men, anal penetration stimulates the prostate (male g-spot), which in doing so can result in deeper, more intense and longer lasting orgasms. In fact, guys you can have an orgasm and quite an intense orgasm at that from stimulation of the prostate gland alone! I bet a lot of you never even realised this... As for women, you have up to 8000 or so sensory nerve endings found in the clitoris that can reach as far as the anus. So as well as that shared connection of sensory nerves, a thin membrane is all the separates the vaginal cavity from the rectal cavity. Therefore, some women find that touching the anal area or using an anal toy is highly erotic and can lead to more intense orgasms.

So what are the guidelines to Anal Sex?

For Anal play to be successful and enjoyable you really do need to follow some basic guidelines. This is so all parties involved get the most enjoyment possible from the experience.
  • Don’t try it if you don’t want to! Cannot stress this enough.
  • Relax your body – maybe have a couple of drinks to help with this.
  • Go SLOW! Rushing into it is never going to end well for anyone involved.
  • Use a good quality “thicker” lube (Astroglide gel – available at naughty but nice online is our top pick here)
  • Condoms are always a good idea. Safe sex guys!
  • Listen to your body.
  • Listen to your partner! Communication is key!
  • Clean toys thoroughly with a proper adult toy cleaner (again available to you from Naughty But Nice online)
  • NEVER switch an anal toy from the Anus to the vagina - Bacteria guys!!

Be prepared for poop!

Yeah we went there. If you’re going to go that back passage then be prepared for some poop. Whether it’s your first time or your 14th time, poop will make an entrance at some point of your Anal play. It’s Ok, it’s completely natural, it’s just part of the anus. You could keep some wipes handy for that quick clean up and save any potential embarrassment. Anal sex also opens you up to butt queefs. They’re not farts, no matter what anyone might say otherwise. They may go on for a little while as the air escapes. Just think of the positive – you are a human butt beatbox! Sex in general can be messy, so don’t make a big deal out of it. If you do then any future desires for anal play will go right out the window.

Relax, Enjoy & be Safe!

Experiment with positions. You can lie flat on your stomach, get into doggie-style or do missionary. You can cause more unnecessary pain and discomfort if you use certain positions (that may allow for more deeper penetrations) before you are ready. If you decide on missionary, maybe for a beginner the receiver goes on top. Inserters who are inexperienced may find this position more relaxing and allows the receiver to have most of the control. Don’t worry about wanting to go slow and gently. You definitely aren’t being a buzz kill who’s squashing his porn dreams of pounding the shit out of a girls butt. Enjoy it. Getting the tip in hurts the most. The head of the penis is the widest part. Once you get through that and up to the shaft it’ll start to feel a lot better. Can you remember the first time you had sex and it hurt a little (well, for some of us) – a bit like that. Relax your PC muscles (pubococcygeus). Relaxing and constricting this muscle is like the anal version of doing kegels. You can worry about that one later one – right now focus on letting those butthole muscles go. Imagine you’re about to poop (you won’t, maybe....) Also, remember unlike the vagina, the anal canal and rectum are NOT self-lubricating so any form of anal penetration must have a lot of lubrication. Lubrication is the key to positive Anal sex play. It will make the whole experience easier, more pleasurable for both partners and going without out it can lead to anal tears. Spit will NOT cut it. Get the lube guys! And finally if you despise it, don’t do it again. If you hate it, you hate it – there is absolutely nothing wrong in that. But most of you might actually be surprised at how enjoyable it actually is and how unbelievably psychologically gratifying it was to watch your partners mind being blown away.
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Best Strap-On

14 Mar
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When we mention the word strap-on most people automatically go to girl/girl. However, strap-on play can be quite fun for everyone. Why make the fuss of using a strap-on when you can just use a regular dildo and guide to wherever you want to use it? Well what most of you don’t realise is that by using a strap-on during sex you are offering a different more unique erotic connection with your bedroom partner – even a deeper sense of intimacy.

What is a strap-on?

Basically a strap-on is an artificial phallic appendage (or dildo), that can be worn to replicate the male penis typically during sex play. It is normally attached to a harness (however there are many different styles which we will delve into shortly) and is designed to sit in a similar position to the male penis. Or it can give a guy an extra penis, one that may be firmer and a little more cooperative then their real one. Most strap-on harness allow the wearer more comfort and control therefore ensuring that they can provide the most pleasure to their partner. Most styles today also offer the flexibility of being able to switch around the dildos so the possibilities and varieties are endless.

Who uses a strap-on?

Strap-ons are typically seen to be worn mostly by women, however they can also be used by men who may be experiencing some erectile dysfunction as it can be used in the same manner as their penis in sexual activity – still providing that level of intimacy that might be a little lost for couples that may be going through some difficult times. Strap-ons are also perfect to be used during role plays, and for those women who love the sensation of being able to penetrate their partner. They provide a novelty aspect to any adventurous couple who is after a little more excitement, a little more playfulness and a much deeper intimacy to any interested couple – not to mention leaves your hands free for other fun!.

What styles are there?

The options in strap-ons right now is amazing. There are so many different styles, materials, shapes and sizes that there is bound to suit each and every need out there. You will have an idea of the size of dildo you will be wanting to use. Also take note if changing the dildo over to other sizes and shapes might be wanted also, if this is the case you may want to look at a harness that had interchangeable o-rings. This allows you to change the dildo easily. (you may need to invest in a set of o-rings when you purchase your new harness. Most harnesses will be padded for extra comfort for the wearer and you can also get some that have an added “pocket” so you can add a clitoral stimulator that makes it even more fun for the female wearer. But we might add that if you get a good quality wireless bullet the vibrations will also reverberate through to the dong in the harness as well. Fun for all!! If you are more experienced in harness use, you may want to keep the strapless strap-on in mind. With this style there are no straps that wrap around your waist. There is a larger bulbous end that is worn in the vagina and the longer “shaft” end that is used to penetrate your partner either vaginally or anally. But please bear in mind that if used anally it is more for those more experienced in anal play, as the shaft can be quite lengthy and circumference.

Enjoy the pleasures!

Regardless of whether you are male or female, anyone can enjoy the power and pleasures of a strap-on. All sexes and orientations can enjoy the adventures (& even the misadventures) of strap-on sex! They are perfect for any men that are concerned with ED issues or for that woman who enjoys the sensation of being able to penetrate her partner. No matter what style, colour, material or functionality Naughty but Nice online will have whatever strap-on harness (or even strapless strap-on) to satisfy any couples sexual needs. Now all you have to do is decide where to start!!
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How To Use a Bullet Vibrator

02 Mar
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Its true... Some of the best things in life come in small packages. Don’t for a second let their small size fool you. Bullet vibrators are well-known in helping to achieve some of the most intense climaxes around. Think of it as your buzz in a pocket. Small enough to fit in your hand, discreet enough to hide in small spots but packs a punch that no clitoris can deny.

So how do you use one you ask?

To be honest with you, there is no right or wrong way to using a bullet vibrator. It’s just a case of you experimenting and finding what works best for you. Place the bullet all over your body, even away from clitoral stimulation – see what feels good and don’t be afraid to try new things. Try tracing it around your inner thigh, nipples, perineum or anus for an intense sensation.  It’s all a part of the thrill of using your new toy.

Multiple Uses

Bullet vibrators can also be use to enhance the effects of other toys. They really are a core item to be in every adult toy collection! Have you noticed that some butt plugs may have a small hole at the base? A bullet vibrator can easily slip in (with the help of a good water based lubricant). Who doesn’t love a little pocket rocket for their back entrance that will leave you in a quivering pleasurable mess. How about in a strap on for a little added buzz? We must also add the Bullets are not just for the women (Don’t be selfish ladies). They are a great addition to sex and with foreplay fun with your partner. You can use the vibrations to create some seriously mind-blowing sensations that will have you both feeling like you are on cloud 9... During foreplay they’re great to use as an addition to oral sex or instead of hands. It’s a great joint purchase since you can both benefit from the intense vibrations these little bullets can provide. Who doesn’t love the intimacy it provides to your relationship when choosing a toy that you can both benefit from?

Even during Sex!

Bullet Vibrators are also extremely wonderful to use during intercourse. The nature of the bullet vibrator means that you can use your hands to control where and how it moves - so you can get what you want, when you want it and exactly where you need it. The vibrations are great for both you and your partner, and if you decided to stimulate the clitoris whilst being penetrated you can go for the elusive, powerful blended orgasm. One thing that people usually forget about Bullet Vibrators is that you are not limited to using just the tip of it – turn it around, use it horizontally for a more widespread stimulation. Whether it be an itty bitty bullet no longer than a lipstick to a buzzing wand that is truly feels like magic or even an ergonomically stylish designed massager, that’s made to slip, slide and glide all over the body spreading delectable sensations everywhere.... Excuse me.... I forgot what I was saying.... OH YESSSS!
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