How to Use a Penis Pump
How to Use a Penis Pump
So does size REALLY matter? Well for many men it does, and not only in the bedroom. You may find yourself wondering if your penis is a normal length or an average size, does it satisfy your bedroom partner? Maybe you have a health issue that causes you to have erectile dysfunction? You’re not alone – this is a really common issue for a lot of men. This is where penis pumps come into play. However, to make sure you gain success in the use of the penis pump you need to make sure you choose the device that is right for you. There are 3 main types of penis pumps – manual (air), battery/rechargeable (electrical) and hydro (water) they will all work in the same general way. They will consist of a plastic cylinder that is placed over the penis, and a vacuum is then created by engaging the pump. As the air pressure inside the tube decreases, the penile tissue begins to swell with blood and the penis becomes erect. This encourages the penile tissues to expand resulting in new cells and enlarging the penis. The penis is then encouraged to remain in this condition for a prolonged period of time, and the growth gain can be permanent. To avoid any risks of penis damage, we recommend you follow these simple instructions:- Start with a slow speed and limited time. If you are beginning out with the penis pump don’t go too hard too fast (excuse the pun there). Take your time. You don’t start up at the gym and run a marathon on your first day so don’t expect the same when “working out” on your penis.
- Avoid excessive pumping. This is probably the most common mistake men make when using a penis pump. Monitor what you are doing to help prevent injuries.
- Put on a penis ring once you have completed your pumping. This will help hold the blood in the penis and encourage the enlargement process.
- Take breaks! Its recommended that you take frequent breaks whilst using the pump as it helps release the air pressure in the penis and improves blood flow.
Steps to Using a Penis Pump
- To ensure a comfortable insertion, apply a water-based lubricant to the opening of the pump
- Insert the penis into the pumps cylinder chamber. Keep testicles outside of the pump.
- Press the base of the pump firmly to your body, creating an air tight seal between your skin and the pump. You may find you might need to trim the hair around the base of the penis so it can sit completely flat against your pubic bone.
- Begin to pump. Slowly! Between each pump allow your penis to adjust to the changing of the pressure before squeezing the bulb/trigger a second & third time. Continue pumping until fully erect.
- Release the pressure and remove your penis. Check for any unusual discoloration. It may look a bit more purple than usual, but if you notice an serious change in colour or experience pain, then STOP. If everything looks and feels alright, then after a short massage of your shaft (using extra lube of course) you will then be ready to go another round of pumping. Usually you can do this for 15-30min.
- Once you have finished, release the air pressure once again and remove your penis. To prolong the appearance of your new found girth and length. Slip on a soft , stretchy, well lubricated penis ring to the base of your penis. Avoid wearing the ring for longer than 30min to avoid causing damage.
How to Use a Dildo
How to Use a Dildo
Dildos are the ultimate do it yourself sex toy when it comes to penetration. One of the best attributes about a dildo is that they are readily available in shapes and sizes that no human does. Downfall to this is that you would think the use of your new dildo come with an instruction manual - But they don’t. Unlike conventional vibrators a dildo won’t move on its own. In fact - It won’t do anything you don’t actually make it do.Choose Wisely
Choosing the right dildo for your style and needs is key – especially as dildos only do what YOU make them do. They don’t bring any extra movement or vibration. Size! Just because you can insert up to eight inches of a dildo doesn’t necessarily mean that you have to. If you get something to big for you, no matter how relaxed and committed you are – Ladies it’s NEVER GOING TO WORK. Pick a shape you like the look of, even take in consideration the colour of your new Dildo. You would be surprised just how excited you actually get when you pick a toy that generally appeases your look and desire. If you are a “beginner” then we would suggest starting off simple and more on the “petite” style. Think of it as a warm up to bigger and better things to come...Set The Mood
Find yourself a private, relaxed setting. Close the blinds, play some music, even light a few candles to help set the mood. Anyone who has done this before any sexual interaction will know how much of an ambience this sets to help with your mood. Maybe even lock the door to stop sneaky “Susan” from barging in on you getting down to business. Always remember to use your Dildo with a good quality water-based lubricant. Put the lubricant on the toy and apply to the inside and outside of your body. Applying the lubricant to your body can act as a “warm up” of sorts. The use of lubricant can also help increase arousal/sexual pleasure – making sex so much more fun. As well as help prevent an unnecessary friction/discomfort whilst using your dildo.Explore Your Depths
There are multiple ways you can explore penetration with your Dildo. Experiment with different angles of insertion and by doing so you may find some spots more pleasurable then others. Deep Thrusting – as you learn the ins and outs (see what we did there) of your dildo you’ll find this technique is exactly as it sounds. Thrusting, along the entire length of your vagina can help provide intense stimulation especially if your dildo has a different texture. Short & Shallow – most of your most sensitive nerve endings are at the start of your vagina, so you don’t need to thrust too deep to get the most enjoyment from your toy. Short, rapid strokes also means your dildo isn’t hammering into your cervix causing unnecessary discomfort. Go Rocking - Try inserting your Dildo so its facing downwards. Just because your toy is straight doesn’t mean you can’t experiment other motions of entry. Rock your dildo back and forth at an angel – so the tip applies pressure to the bottom of your vagina. Explore your G-spot. Temperature Play – This is particularly pleasant when using a dildo made from steel or glass. Temperature play is simply the act of changing the temperature of the toy. This can be achieved via sitting the toy in ice, warm water or with a warming lubricant. A cold dildo dragged across the nipples might be a tantalizing sensation, whilst you may find yourself relaxed to try larger toys if the surface of it has been warmed up.Just Enjoy!
Whether your new dildo is made from sleek steel, divine glass or colourful silicone. There are an array of colours, shapes and sizes, the important thing to remember is to choose which one you believe best suits your needs and desires! Once you purchase one you will no doubt embark on a journey of self exploration through masturbation and orgasms. What’s not to love about that?
How to Use a Penis Ring
How to Use a Penis Ring
The main purpose of a penis ring (cock ring) is to restrict the blood flow in the penis. Basically keeping your man harder and firmer for longer, as well as enhancing the look of his genitals it will also give him more intense orgasms seeing as the ring can make him last longer to reach orgasm.So What Does It Feel Like?
Have you ever tied a piece of string or rubber band around your finger? Your finger gets a warm, pressurised sensation. This is very similar to what a penis ring will feel like. It creates a sense of pressure, which some men will find quite pleasurable. It’s not always a feeling everyone will enjoy so we are going to break it down so it’s a little easier for you to decide on what style will be safest for you.Which Material Is Best?
Penis rings can come in every conceivable form and material you can imagine. These include: rubber, silicone, leather, metal, & glass – just to name a few. To give you an idea of just how long the use of penis rings has been around, it was believed that the first “documented” use of penis rings was actually in China, made from the eyelids of goats, with the eyelashes still intact to act as a tickler – of course... (ladies I bet you’re glad we’ve made many advancements in technology since then!) When choosing your penis ring it’s important to consider what it is you want from it. If you have never used a penis ring before then we would recommend that you try an adjustable, flexible style to start with. These are available in vibrating (for a little extra buzz) or non-vibrating (purely as erection enhancers).How to Wear It
Penis rings (cock rings) are relatively easy to wear and use. Their main purpose is to restrict the blood flow and give a slightly enlarged look, pronouncing veins and giving the penis a red blush. The ring itself should be tight but not too tight that it causes you any discomfort! Always remember to use a good quality water-based lubricant and apply to the inside of the ring, this will help make sure that it can slide across the penis smoothly and make it easier to putting it into the correct position without causing any unnecessary friction. You should put on the ring whilst the penis is not fully erect, as you become erect, the ring should become tighter. Some penis rings are worn around the base of the penis and behind the scrotum (for a firm grip), whilst others can just be work around the shaft of the penis. If you notice the ring is causing more pronounced swelling, then the fit is incorrect and it is recommended you remove the ring. Continual use of a penis ring that is too tight can cause numbness, discoloration and pain. This also applies if at any point your penis feels cold. And NEVER wear one to sleep. Always check for these common warning signs to ensure you don’t cause yourself any damage. It is recommended to remove the penis ring after 30min to let the blood flow return to normal before giving it another go. Penis rings help men get firmer erections and help maintain it for longer (what’s not to love about that!). With so many different variations and styles there is one that will suit absolutely everyone. Why not add a vibrating penis ring into the bedroom and get a boost in the bedroom!
How To Use a Vibrator: Our Guide to Achieving Maximum Pleasure
How To Use a Vibrator: Our Guide to Achieving Maximum Pleasure
Learning how to use a vibrator can be incredibly enjoyable, and a great way to explore what you (and your partner) enjoy most in the bedroom. The most important first step to this is to realise that owning a vibrator is completely normal!Get to Know Your Vibrator
Once you have a vibrator, it’s time to get to know it. Take it out of its package and get to know how it works. If you it needs to be charged before its first use do that. If it takes batteries, find out what ones are best suited for it. Then play with the buttons, find out how many speeds and functions it may have. If you’re already turned on, then you’ll notice how pleasurable it feels from just holding it in your hands with it vibrating. It’s not just about turning it on. It’s about turning yourself (& your partner if the case may be) on. Wash your toy thoroughly before you use it.Start Out On Your Own
This may sound odd to some especially if you are planning on using the toy with your partner, but trust us on this. By starting out on your own, you’ll find you will be less self conscious when you bring your partner into the mix. This allows you to focus on how it feels for you without any added distractions. Set the scene for yourself so you can completely relax. If you have roommates, children, thin walls or even that nosy neighbour that can never help themselves, try turning on some music, & use a blanket to help mute out any sound – also helps if you have chosen a quieter vibrator. Always ask the store to show you that the toy works before you leave the store with it, this also allows you to hear the noise level the vibrator will go to. No one finds the sound of a lawnmower sexy.Explore Your Body - Don't Rush It
Don’t jump straight into the main event. Take your time. Run the vibrator over your body. Arms, shoulders, neck, across your belly and scalp. You can even do this with your clothes still on. Although vibrators are mainly used mostly around the clitoris and the vulva, get a feel for the vibrations around your whole body then slowly move towards those more sensitive parts. Vibrators don’t get tired (although you can burn it out, so just keep a look out for any overheating), they also allow you to explore your entire body sexually. Think of yourself as an explorer, and the vibrator is both your compass and your torch navigating you through sexual self discovery. This not only teaches you about yourself but in turn will help you communicate for efficiently with a partner. It’s a win, win for everyone!Ready, Set, Go!
You will find majority of vibrators will have multiple speeds (really, who doesn’t like options!). Always start off on the lower setting and gradually build your way up. You may find that in certain parts of your body all you need is the lower setting and on others you may feel like stronger vibration is better. If you find the vibration setting to intense to begin with you can always prop a towel between you and the vibrator or just press lightly against your body. Experiment! From a feather light touch to a self-love smack down... find out what works where on your body.Go Deeper
Penetration... Can seem like a scary thought for some. Start slowly. Top tip here is to get yourself aroused by using the vibrator externally first. This helps you and your whole body relax. Most of the your most sensitive nerve endings are found externally, lots of woman still enjoy the feel of the vibrations internally. You can explore and stimulate the g-spot with an internal toy, and it has also been researched that nerve endings in the cervix respond positively to the stimulation and pressure from a vibrator. ALWAYS use a good quality water-based lubricant when ever using a vibrator for internal stimulation.Have Fun
By using a vibrator you are learning many different levels of stimulation that works for you and your body and this then gives you the tools to feel comfortable and to openly communicate with a partner in the bedroom. Show them what you like. Remember a vibrator is there to enhance play time with a partner, not to replace them. And really there’s nothing better than to fall in love with your vibrator – again and again!!!
Best Vibrator – Tips for Buying The Perfect Vibrator
Best Vibrator - Tips for Buying The Perfect Vibrator
We’ll be the first to admit that buying a vibrator can be tricky. It’s not the type of thing you can just take into a dressing room to try on. And if you could I think I’d be more concerned about their health and safety standards!! And what might seem “fantastic” for your friend: may not actually suit your needs what so ever! With seemingly unlimited combinations of variety and sizes, features and designs, picking the best one for you can be a challenge. The best way to start your journey is to think about how YOU want to use your vibrator?Internal or External?
Are you after internal stimulation or external stimulation? Different style vibrators are designed to stimulate you in different ways. Some may focus on internal pleasures. Here you pay close attention to the shape and the movement of the toy. Don’t forget that some of those internal toys can feel like heaven being used against the clitoris too! Others just target the super-sensitive clitoris area – consider here if you would prefer a vibe from either a hard or squishy material. And for double the pleasure you can also find those styles that offer you stimulation both internally and externally at the same time. But always remember that with the use of a little imagination most vibrators can be used in many new creative ways... “A little buzz can go a long way”!!Size Does Matter
In this case... size does matter. Well, most times. As we are all individuals so are our requirements. External stimulators can be large or small (it really just depends on the discretion you’re after in regards to the vibrator itself) its more internal where sizing can be more relevant. You don’t want your vibrator to be too uncomfortable for you. That can really put you off the whole experience not to mention also takes away all the fun.Choosing the Right Material
Vibrators are now made from a wide range of materials, each with their own unique properties. Choice of material is largely based on personal preference. Although if you are aware of any sensitive skin allergies then Silicone is highly recommended. Silicone is a high end, non porous, soft material that is super easy to keep clean and as an added bonus adjusts to your body temperature when you use it. Its hypo-allergenic and the most hygienic sex toy vibrator material available. But always remember if you do have a silicone vibrator, be sure to NOT use a silicone lubricant with it. They react adversely with each other.Rechargeable Vibrators
If you’re after more powerful you want to look at rechargeable styles. Expect to pay more but you get so much more value for money when it comes to these styles! There’s really nothing worse than your vibrator going flat at the most inopportune time and then batteries making themselves scarce when you’re trying to source them in every nook and cranny of the house. Rechargeable vibrators are convenient, reliable, powerful and usually made with higher quality materials compared to their battery counterparts. Not to mention so much more convenient when travelling.The Need for Speed
Vibrators do exactly as their name suggests – vibrate. There are however a range of speeds and patterns that each vibrator is potentially capable of. Some will just have a very straight forward on/off function with no bells and whistles. Others may be multi-speed, allowing you far better control on allowing you to increase or decrease the intensity of the vibration so it suits your personal taste/mood at the time of using it. Multi-function vibrators have a range of speeds and functions (vibration patterns) that tickle and tease in an assortment of pulse and waves. This style is particularly great for a beginner as it allows you to explore your individual wants, likes and needs when it comes to vibrators.Waterproof Vibrators
Have you ever thought of taking a “buzzing boyfriend” into the bath? A waterproof vibrator will make sure showers and baths will never be the same again. Cleaning a waterproof toy is much easier too; especially as you don’t have to be concerned about water getting into parts it shouldn’t!Climax Faster
Whether you are on your own or with a partner, its common knowledge that a vibrator can help you reach climax faster. Not to mention it’s also FUN! So when you decide to purchase a vibrator, it should be a considered and thought out process, because when you invest in a sex toy, you’re also making an investment into your personal pleasure. This is something that a lot of people can take for granted. So taking the time to consider your individual wants and needs will go a long way – as no one wants to see a draw full of abandoned vibrators!
The Benefits of Female Masturbation
The Benefits of Female Masturbation
There’s a saying that 8 out of every 10 girls masturbate…and the other 2 are lying. Whether this statement holds true or not is the topic of much research, but there is one undeniable fact – there are many benefits of female masturbation over non-masturbation or partner sex. Let’s take a look at some of the specific benefits resulting from masturbation:- Masturbation helps prevent cervical infections and helps relieve urinary tract infections – when you orgasm, the cervix opens up allowing fluid to flow through into the vagina, helpful bacteria also occur with the rise of acidity during this process and help to kill off and flush out any harmful bacteria that can cause infections.
- Improve cardiovascular health and lower risk of type 2 diabetes – whether as a direct result of increased orgasms or due to the lives of women who masturbate more regularly, but a number of studies have shown that women who experienced more orgasms than their counterparts also showed greater resistance to specific types of heart disease and diabetes.
- Eliminate insomnia, improve mood and relieve stress – with the anticipation of climax comes the rise of dopamine (the hormone that makes you feel good), after an orgasm oxycotin and endorphins are released helping you to feel calm and relaxed (and ultimately fall asleep!).
- Increase pelvic floor strength – along with the many other things happening during an orgasm, your pelvic floor gets a huge workout, why would you want a strong pelvic floor? To increase sexual satisfaction, ‘tighten’ up your vagina and eliminate embarrassing ‘leaks’. Many women find that using orgasm balls (kegel balls) and other adult toys to be beneficial alongside standard pelvic floor exercises prescribed by health professionals.
- Increase self-esteem and improve relationship with self – whether it’s through self-awareness and finding out what turns you on, which adult toys you prefer or simply what brings you pleasure, each orgasm can bring you closer to fulfilment.
- Strengthen relationship with partner – everyone has different sexual needs, masturbation can help you understand what turns you on and even help your partner help you reach that holy grail.
3 Situations Where You Will Need Adult Costumes
3 Situations Where You Will Need Adult Costumes
3 Situations Where You Will Need Adult Costumes Whether you’d like to admit it or not, every couple needs a few adult costumes in their wardrobe. The Nurse, The Gangster, The Police Officer, the Fireman…and the list goes on. Why do you need all these get ups? The scenarios are endless. Let’s begin. As an alternative to new years celebrations – rather than spending hundreds of dollars on a night out like a canned sardine at the clubs (like every other person decides to do), jump into your costumes and have a sexy night in. Get some roleplay going, put on a movie, make some pancakes. Hell, doing anything in your costume makes it better. To hold ‘underground adult theatre’ parties – you and your partner have always had dreams of making it on Broadway. Only those plans didn’t quite take off. You both have always been fans of underground cinema, so why not do your part for the cause and begin holding your own shows? Invite your friends, other couples and put on a show. They’ll love it. You’ll love it. And on a more serious note: Escape reality and spice up your sex life – adult costumes set off a trigger that connects with our past experiences. Think about it, watching Snow White as a child, now you’re the sexy Snow White bringing back happy and exciting memories of childhood. The connection has a similar effect on men. Take a nurse for example, what are the standard word associations with nurses? Caring, safety etc. A secretary? Helping around the office, doing things for him etc. One of the biggest tools for turn ons is the mind and adult costumes can help stimulate that response. Give it a go. Head on to your nearest Wicked Desires Adult Shops, check out the selection of adult costumes and try a bit of roleplay. You’ll feel the excitement.
Honeymoon Kits and Hens Nights Novelties
Honeymoon Kits and Hens Nights Novelties
So, you’re getting married? Don’t panic! It’s not all downhill after you tie the knot, don’t let the divorce rate scare you. The fun doesn’t have to end when you say ‘I do.’ However, it certainly can seem that way, especially when the big day is looming and you’re stressing about your dress, your vows, the seating plan, and not to mention you’re having a recurring nightmare where you trip down the aisle and fall flat on your face. But you shouldn’t let yourself become a Bridezilla, and if you do have moments where you transform into an evil dictator, make sure you instruct your bridesmaids to plan you a hens night you will never forget. You will be needing all the classics – penis shaped… everything, a bright pink bride-to-be sash, male strippers, fishnets, and a limousine, naturally. Think of your hens night as a pep-rally for your wedding day, and for your honeymoon. But don’t just save the sexy, outrageous behaviour for when you’re out with the girls, rocking fishnets and a tiara, whistling at strangers on the street from your limo while downing champagne and cosmos. Take the spice and sass from your hens night, and pack it into a honeymoon kit to unleash on your new man on your first night as husband and wife. And don’t just take a metaphorical honeymoon kit either. Get his heart racing with some sexy lingerie, body chocolate, and maybe even a pair of handcuffs (just so he knows who’s going to wear the pants in your marriage). Make your hens night notorious and your honeymoon unforgettable – browse our online store for all the hens night gags and gimmicks and the sex toys which will keep your sex life alive for the rest of your marriage.