Best Dildo How to Choose the Right One
Best Dildo How to Choose the Right One
No matter what stage you are at when it comes to sex toy exploration – every toy kit needs at least 1 dildo in it!. But if you’ve never brought, or even used a dildo before you’re probably really unsure as to where to even start. Dildos are beautiful and extremely versatile toys that are so easy to enjoy during solo play or with a partner and the varieties are truly endless. Sometimes it can be love at first sight when it comes to dildos. What with the pretty colours and packaging but so many consumers can be led astray by this and that’s when you can come across issues and these can lead you not being completely satisfied by your new toy.Size Matters
Yes, this is important! When it comes to dildos , it’s really all about the length and the girth (width). Dildos can come in an array of shapes and sizes , from small ones the size of your finger (which are great for those wanting to experiment in the world of pegging) all the way through to those “extreme size” dildos that can have a girth the size of a small dinner plate! – got your attention there with that one didn’t we? If you are a novice in sex toy exploration we highly recommend that you start small - 6-7 inches of insertable inches will be plenty to start with. Don’t go crazy and buy that 12 inch dildo if you have never even used one before. The fun in starting small is that you get to grow your collection to bigger things the more comfortable and more experienced you become. Who doesn’t love the chance in increasing their sex toy collection!Materials
Believe it or not deciding on the right material for your needs is also very important when picking out your new dildo. Dildos can come in a wide array of materials from silicone, to glass, metal, jelly and several branded “realistic feeling” materials. The different materials are great for different purposes and in saying that some also need extra care and caution. Silicone - these are hypoallergenic and safe for all users. They are soft and supple and the easy choice to go for, for durability and quality. They can come in an array of sizes, and colours (including realistic). Glass/Metal - these are extremely firm and because of this are not for everyone. These materials are non-porous, body safe and easy to keep clean. They are a great choice especially when you want to venture into temperature play due to their resilience and durability. TPR/TPE – proceed with caution as this material can cause allergic reactions to those with more sensitive skin. This material is porous but it is wonderfully pliable and there are some great , affordable dildos made from this material. Always wash with a proper toy antibacterial cleaner and store away where the toy can breathe to get the longest, safest use of a toy made from this material. Realistic - this type of material is great for those who want a more natural feel as they are soft and lifelike. You do need to take care of the material and be sure to dust it over with a renew powder or cornflour after washing it with a antibacterial toy cleaner to keep the material from going sticky and tacky. Jelly/PVC - proceed with caution. Toys made from this material tend to be more affordable but they are a high risk of causing an allergic reaction. They can also contain a strong odour. The safest way to use a dildo made from this material is to always use it with a condom. Explore all your sexual fantasies, practice new sex moves and positions, or just go crazy during solo play. Invite your partner to join you with your new dildo. Give them a sexy show to satisfy their visual desires. You can even use your new dildo as an “extra” with your partner so that threesome doesn’t become awkward but you can still fulfil that threesome fantasy without the issues of jealousy. Your sexual wellness is important. Tease, and tantalize. Enjoy all the sexual endeavours you want with the best dildo for you. Give yourself the best – you deserve nothing but the best ultimate orgasms!!
How to Use a Penis Pump
How to Use a Penis Pump
So does size REALLY matter? Well for many men it does, and not only in the bedroom. You may find yourself wondering if your penis is a normal length or an average size, does it satisfy your bedroom partner? Maybe you have a health issue that causes you to have erectile dysfunction? You’re not alone – this is a really common issue for a lot of men. This is where penis pumps come into play. However, to make sure you gain success in the use of the penis pump you need to make sure you choose the device that is right for you. There are 3 main types of penis pumps – manual (air), battery/rechargeable (electrical) and hydro (water) they will all work in the same general way. They will consist of a plastic cylinder that is placed over the penis, and a vacuum is then created by engaging the pump. As the air pressure inside the tube decreases, the penile tissue begins to swell with blood and the penis becomes erect. This encourages the penile tissues to expand resulting in new cells and enlarging the penis. The penis is then encouraged to remain in this condition for a prolonged period of time, and the growth gain can be permanent. To avoid any risks of penis damage, we recommend you follow these simple instructions:- Start with a slow speed and limited time. If you are beginning out with the penis pump don’t go too hard too fast (excuse the pun there). Take your time. You don’t start up at the gym and run a marathon on your first day so don’t expect the same when “working out” on your penis.
- Avoid excessive pumping. This is probably the most common mistake men make when using a penis pump. Monitor what you are doing to help prevent injuries.
- Put on a penis ring once you have completed your pumping. This will help hold the blood in the penis and encourage the enlargement process.
- Take breaks! Its recommended that you take frequent breaks whilst using the pump as it helps release the air pressure in the penis and improves blood flow.
Steps to Using a Penis Pump
- To ensure a comfortable insertion, apply a water-based lubricant to the opening of the pump
- Insert the penis into the pumps cylinder chamber. Keep testicles outside of the pump.
- Press the base of the pump firmly to your body, creating an air tight seal between your skin and the pump. You may find you might need to trim the hair around the base of the penis so it can sit completely flat against your pubic bone.
- Begin to pump. Slowly! Between each pump allow your penis to adjust to the changing of the pressure before squeezing the bulb/trigger a second & third time. Continue pumping until fully erect.
- Release the pressure and remove your penis. Check for any unusual discoloration. It may look a bit more purple than usual, but if you notice an serious change in colour or experience pain, then STOP. If everything looks and feels alright, then after a short massage of your shaft (using extra lube of course) you will then be ready to go another round of pumping. Usually you can do this for 15-30min.
- Once you have finished, release the air pressure once again and remove your penis. To prolong the appearance of your new found girth and length. Slip on a soft , stretchy, well lubricated penis ring to the base of your penis. Avoid wearing the ring for longer than 30min to avoid causing damage.
How to Use a Dildo
How to Use a Dildo
Dildos are the ultimate do it yourself sex toy when it comes to penetration. One of the best attributes about a dildo is that they are readily available in shapes and sizes that no human does. Downfall to this is that you would think the use of your new dildo come with an instruction manual - But they don’t. Unlike conventional vibrators a dildo won’t move on its own. In fact - It won’t do anything you don’t actually make it do.Choose Wisely
Choosing the right dildo for your style and needs is key – especially as dildos only do what YOU make them do. They don’t bring any extra movement or vibration. Size! Just because you can insert up to eight inches of a dildo doesn’t necessarily mean that you have to. If you get something to big for you, no matter how relaxed and committed you are – Ladies it’s NEVER GOING TO WORK. Pick a shape you like the look of, even take in consideration the colour of your new Dildo. You would be surprised just how excited you actually get when you pick a toy that generally appeases your look and desire. If you are a “beginner” then we would suggest starting off simple and more on the “petite” style. Think of it as a warm up to bigger and better things to come...Set The Mood
Find yourself a private, relaxed setting. Close the blinds, play some music, even light a few candles to help set the mood. Anyone who has done this before any sexual interaction will know how much of an ambience this sets to help with your mood. Maybe even lock the door to stop sneaky “Susan” from barging in on you getting down to business. Always remember to use your Dildo with a good quality water-based lubricant. Put the lubricant on the toy and apply to the inside and outside of your body. Applying the lubricant to your body can act as a “warm up” of sorts. The use of lubricant can also help increase arousal/sexual pleasure – making sex so much more fun. As well as help prevent an unnecessary friction/discomfort whilst using your dildo.Explore Your Depths
There are multiple ways you can explore penetration with your Dildo. Experiment with different angles of insertion and by doing so you may find some spots more pleasurable then others. Deep Thrusting – as you learn the ins and outs (see what we did there) of your dildo you’ll find this technique is exactly as it sounds. Thrusting, along the entire length of your vagina can help provide intense stimulation especially if your dildo has a different texture. Short & Shallow – most of your most sensitive nerve endings are at the start of your vagina, so you don’t need to thrust too deep to get the most enjoyment from your toy. Short, rapid strokes also means your dildo isn’t hammering into your cervix causing unnecessary discomfort. Go Rocking - Try inserting your Dildo so its facing downwards. Just because your toy is straight doesn’t mean you can’t experiment other motions of entry. Rock your dildo back and forth at an angel – so the tip applies pressure to the bottom of your vagina. Explore your G-spot. Temperature Play – This is particularly pleasant when using a dildo made from steel or glass. Temperature play is simply the act of changing the temperature of the toy. This can be achieved via sitting the toy in ice, warm water or with a warming lubricant. A cold dildo dragged across the nipples might be a tantalizing sensation, whilst you may find yourself relaxed to try larger toys if the surface of it has been warmed up.Just Enjoy!
Whether your new dildo is made from sleek steel, divine glass or colourful silicone. There are an array of colours, shapes and sizes, the important thing to remember is to choose which one you believe best suits your needs and desires! Once you purchase one you will no doubt embark on a journey of self exploration through masturbation and orgasms. What’s not to love about that?
How to Use a Penis Ring
How to Use a Penis Ring
The main purpose of a penis ring (cock ring) is to restrict the blood flow in the penis. Basically keeping your man harder and firmer for longer, as well as enhancing the look of his genitals it will also give him more intense orgasms seeing as the ring can make him last longer to reach orgasm.So What Does It Feel Like?
Have you ever tied a piece of string or rubber band around your finger? Your finger gets a warm, pressurised sensation. This is very similar to what a penis ring will feel like. It creates a sense of pressure, which some men will find quite pleasurable. It’s not always a feeling everyone will enjoy so we are going to break it down so it’s a little easier for you to decide on what style will be safest for you.Which Material Is Best?
Penis rings can come in every conceivable form and material you can imagine. These include: rubber, silicone, leather, metal, & glass – just to name a few. To give you an idea of just how long the use of penis rings has been around, it was believed that the first “documented” use of penis rings was actually in China, made from the eyelids of goats, with the eyelashes still intact to act as a tickler – of course... (ladies I bet you’re glad we’ve made many advancements in technology since then!) When choosing your penis ring it’s important to consider what it is you want from it. If you have never used a penis ring before then we would recommend that you try an adjustable, flexible style to start with. These are available in vibrating (for a little extra buzz) or non-vibrating (purely as erection enhancers).How to Wear It
Penis rings (cock rings) are relatively easy to wear and use. Their main purpose is to restrict the blood flow and give a slightly enlarged look, pronouncing veins and giving the penis a red blush. The ring itself should be tight but not too tight that it causes you any discomfort! Always remember to use a good quality water-based lubricant and apply to the inside of the ring, this will help make sure that it can slide across the penis smoothly and make it easier to putting it into the correct position without causing any unnecessary friction. You should put on the ring whilst the penis is not fully erect, as you become erect, the ring should become tighter. Some penis rings are worn around the base of the penis and behind the scrotum (for a firm grip), whilst others can just be work around the shaft of the penis. If you notice the ring is causing more pronounced swelling, then the fit is incorrect and it is recommended you remove the ring. Continual use of a penis ring that is too tight can cause numbness, discoloration and pain. This also applies if at any point your penis feels cold. And NEVER wear one to sleep. Always check for these common warning signs to ensure you don’t cause yourself any damage. It is recommended to remove the penis ring after 30min to let the blood flow return to normal before giving it another go. Penis rings help men get firmer erections and help maintain it for longer (what’s not to love about that!). With so many different variations and styles there is one that will suit absolutely everyone. Why not add a vibrating penis ring into the bedroom and get a boost in the bedroom!
How To Use a Vibrator: Our Guide to Achieving Maximum Pleasure
How To Use a Vibrator: Our Guide to Achieving Maximum Pleasure
Learning how to use a vibrator can be incredibly enjoyable, and a great way to explore what you (and your partner) enjoy most in the bedroom. The most important first step to this is to realise that owning a vibrator is completely normal!Get to Know Your Vibrator
Once you have a vibrator, it’s time to get to know it. Take it out of its package and get to know how it works. If you it needs to be charged before its first use do that. If it takes batteries, find out what ones are best suited for it. Then play with the buttons, find out how many speeds and functions it may have. If you’re already turned on, then you’ll notice how pleasurable it feels from just holding it in your hands with it vibrating. It’s not just about turning it on. It’s about turning yourself (& your partner if the case may be) on. Wash your toy thoroughly before you use it.Start Out On Your Own
This may sound odd to some especially if you are planning on using the toy with your partner, but trust us on this. By starting out on your own, you’ll find you will be less self conscious when you bring your partner into the mix. This allows you to focus on how it feels for you without any added distractions. Set the scene for yourself so you can completely relax. If you have roommates, children, thin walls or even that nosy neighbour that can never help themselves, try turning on some music, & use a blanket to help mute out any sound – also helps if you have chosen a quieter vibrator. Always ask the store to show you that the toy works before you leave the store with it, this also allows you to hear the noise level the vibrator will go to. No one finds the sound of a lawnmower sexy.Explore Your Body - Don't Rush It
Don’t jump straight into the main event. Take your time. Run the vibrator over your body. Arms, shoulders, neck, across your belly and scalp. You can even do this with your clothes still on. Although vibrators are mainly used mostly around the clitoris and the vulva, get a feel for the vibrations around your whole body then slowly move towards those more sensitive parts. Vibrators don’t get tired (although you can burn it out, so just keep a look out for any overheating), they also allow you to explore your entire body sexually. Think of yourself as an explorer, and the vibrator is both your compass and your torch navigating you through sexual self discovery. This not only teaches you about yourself but in turn will help you communicate for efficiently with a partner. It’s a win, win for everyone!Ready, Set, Go!
You will find majority of vibrators will have multiple speeds (really, who doesn’t like options!). Always start off on the lower setting and gradually build your way up. You may find that in certain parts of your body all you need is the lower setting and on others you may feel like stronger vibration is better. If you find the vibration setting to intense to begin with you can always prop a towel between you and the vibrator or just press lightly against your body. Experiment! From a feather light touch to a self-love smack down... find out what works where on your body.Go Deeper
Penetration... Can seem like a scary thought for some. Start slowly. Top tip here is to get yourself aroused by using the vibrator externally first. This helps you and your whole body relax. Most of the your most sensitive nerve endings are found externally, lots of woman still enjoy the feel of the vibrations internally. You can explore and stimulate the g-spot with an internal toy, and it has also been researched that nerve endings in the cervix respond positively to the stimulation and pressure from a vibrator. ALWAYS use a good quality water-based lubricant when ever using a vibrator for internal stimulation.Have Fun
By using a vibrator you are learning many different levels of stimulation that works for you and your body and this then gives you the tools to feel comfortable and to openly communicate with a partner in the bedroom. Show them what you like. Remember a vibrator is there to enhance play time with a partner, not to replace them. And really there’s nothing better than to fall in love with your vibrator – again and again!!!
Best Vibrator – Tips for Buying The Perfect Vibrator
Best Vibrator - Tips for Buying The Perfect Vibrator
We’ll be the first to admit that buying a vibrator can be tricky. It’s not the type of thing you can just take into a dressing room to try on. And if you could I think I’d be more concerned about their health and safety standards!! And what might seem “fantastic” for your friend: may not actually suit your needs what so ever! With seemingly unlimited combinations of variety and sizes, features and designs, picking the best one for you can be a challenge. The best way to start your journey is to think about how YOU want to use your vibrator?Internal or External?
Are you after internal stimulation or external stimulation? Different style vibrators are designed to stimulate you in different ways. Some may focus on internal pleasures. Here you pay close attention to the shape and the movement of the toy. Don’t forget that some of those internal toys can feel like heaven being used against the clitoris too! Others just target the super-sensitive clitoris area – consider here if you would prefer a vibe from either a hard or squishy material. And for double the pleasure you can also find those styles that offer you stimulation both internally and externally at the same time. But always remember that with the use of a little imagination most vibrators can be used in many new creative ways... “A little buzz can go a long way”!!Size Does Matter
In this case... size does matter. Well, most times. As we are all individuals so are our requirements. External stimulators can be large or small (it really just depends on the discretion you’re after in regards to the vibrator itself) its more internal where sizing can be more relevant. You don’t want your vibrator to be too uncomfortable for you. That can really put you off the whole experience not to mention also takes away all the fun.Choosing the Right Material
Vibrators are now made from a wide range of materials, each with their own unique properties. Choice of material is largely based on personal preference. Although if you are aware of any sensitive skin allergies then Silicone is highly recommended. Silicone is a high end, non porous, soft material that is super easy to keep clean and as an added bonus adjusts to your body temperature when you use it. Its hypo-allergenic and the most hygienic sex toy vibrator material available. But always remember if you do have a silicone vibrator, be sure to NOT use a silicone lubricant with it. They react adversely with each other.Rechargeable Vibrators
If you’re after more powerful you want to look at rechargeable styles. Expect to pay more but you get so much more value for money when it comes to these styles! There’s really nothing worse than your vibrator going flat at the most inopportune time and then batteries making themselves scarce when you’re trying to source them in every nook and cranny of the house. Rechargeable vibrators are convenient, reliable, powerful and usually made with higher quality materials compared to their battery counterparts. Not to mention so much more convenient when travelling.The Need for Speed
Vibrators do exactly as their name suggests – vibrate. There are however a range of speeds and patterns that each vibrator is potentially capable of. Some will just have a very straight forward on/off function with no bells and whistles. Others may be multi-speed, allowing you far better control on allowing you to increase or decrease the intensity of the vibration so it suits your personal taste/mood at the time of using it. Multi-function vibrators have a range of speeds and functions (vibration patterns) that tickle and tease in an assortment of pulse and waves. This style is particularly great for a beginner as it allows you to explore your individual wants, likes and needs when it comes to vibrators.Waterproof Vibrators
Have you ever thought of taking a “buzzing boyfriend” into the bath? A waterproof vibrator will make sure showers and baths will never be the same again. Cleaning a waterproof toy is much easier too; especially as you don’t have to be concerned about water getting into parts it shouldn’t!Climax Faster
Whether you are on your own or with a partner, its common knowledge that a vibrator can help you reach climax faster. Not to mention it’s also FUN! So when you decide to purchase a vibrator, it should be a considered and thought out process, because when you invest in a sex toy, you’re also making an investment into your personal pleasure. This is something that a lot of people can take for granted. So taking the time to consider your individual wants and needs will go a long way – as no one wants to see a draw full of abandoned vibrators!
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DONA is a aphrodisiac & pheromone infused collection
DONA is a aphrodisiac & pheromone infused collection.
Aphrodisiacs are natural chemicals are found in a variety of foods and herbs such as oysters, asparagus, honey, ginseng and maca. It is believed that these natural chemicals stimulate libido and heighten sexual arousal when metabolized by the body. Aphrodisiacs have been used by different cultures for centuries to stir desire. This means DONA products will help put you in the mood! Pheromones are odorless chemical signals naturally released by the body to trigger a social response in members of the same species. In humans, pheromones affect physical attraction and arousal. Men and women are both subconsciously attuned to these chemicals -- individuals with greater pheromone levels are perceived as more desirable. By increasing the body's output of natural pheromones and supplementing them with added synthetic attractors, the products in our DONA collection boost a woman's chemical magnetism. In other words, DONA pheromones can make you irresistible. Yes! The aphrodisiacs & pheromones used in DONA products are all 100% safe, containing no harmful chemicals, known allergens or harsh irritants. Our pheromones are synthetic and not derived from coyote urine, pigs or humans. Come in store to see our full range & unveil your inner seductress with sensual bubble baths & salts, massage oils/butters, intoxicating perfumes, irresistibly kissable body paints, lingerie wash, shimmer dust/spray and more!
The Mini Swan Vibe
The Mini Swan Vibe
The Mini Swan Vibe boasts simplistic, clean lines and a distinctive, ergonomic, curved design. As you can see, one end is narrow, the other is bulbous (stimulation end). The single control button is located in the middle between these two ends; it’s a small, raised bump. The charging port is easy to miss, it’s a small dot at the tip of the narrow end. Product Specifications :- In total, just under 5 inches in length;
- The bulbous end has a diameter of 1.25 inches;
- Technically, you can use this as an internal vibrator as well, though you can only insert about 2.75 inches before the power button goes inside too.